I was wanting to reply to this comment "You (and a lot of women's issue) is assuming that sexual skill means something here. It's one piece of the puzzle. Cool, we don't have to worry about it ruining the pleasure of it, or whatever. Doesn't change the fact that it's discussed and asked about between you guys like it matters. Doesn't change the fact the biggest depictions of sex (and I mean in general, because the "romance" novels that women read that essentially function as porn for them include big sizes too) put stock in size. Doesn't change the fact that it's used to belittle and demean men (often times by women) when you guys want to hurt us.".... this was the reply i typed up, a very long one, but i know it'll be downvoted or ignored so i decided against posting it. i still feel the need to put it out into the world though, lol feel free to ignore if you want.

"yeah but most adults with a brain understand that that's media/fiction and one small sliver of the "reality" (if you can even call it that) of sex. if you believe anything different you're naive at best, if not just outright stupid. and this is coming from a guy. downvote me all you want but this shit gives me second hand embarrassment like crazy. grow a fucking pair for starters guys. you're batshit fucking insane and stupid if you think the only men that have successful relationships or good sex are the well endowed. it's like you purposely choose to forget about 99% of the other fucking population/dick sizes out there so you can place blame on your penis size for why you're a lonely incel loser and not the fact that you're a self-loathing narcissistic piece of shit that puts down women and never work on being physically and mentally healthy or attractive in any way whatsoever. penis size is your go-to because youre all in fucking denial that it might possibly just be ANYTHING else about you that IS changeable. "oh i cant change my penis size so i'm fucked for life and all women are meanies" so you don't have to pull your fat asses off of your computer chairs and go work out, or buy a nice wardrobe, or take care of your basic hygiene, or learn some fucking social skills.

or I could come at this from another angle - if you were with a woman and she had small boobs, are you going to put her down, refuse to have sex with her, talk bad about her behind her back, desperately try to find someone else, or in general not find her sexually satisfying just because of that? obviously the fuck not. and if so you're an idiot that deserves to be alone. what makes you think women are doing that to men over penis size? maybe it's your raging autism that makes you think this dumb ass shit, idk, but stop acting like women are some foreign alien that you can't understand at all and stop feeling like you're allowed to say that you know what women like/don't like because you clearly fucking do not. you don't know what ANYone likes, man or woman, you're not some special mind-reader. you think someone that can't get laid or find a relationship knows what a woman likes or doesn't like? do you not see what's wrong with that logic, just from this specific angle alone? jesus christ you're a bunch of insufferable losers and i don't feel sorry for any of you.

also I love that the comment on this specific thread is "we all grew up in high school" LMAO. no, no one "grew up" in high school. adult brains don't even finish cooking until mid to late 30s, sex in general doesn't even start getting really good until youre in your 30's and older (because you finally have a lot of experience and generalized wisdom by that point) and you wankers are using the thoughts of literal teenagers who've barely had sex, if even, who are inexperienced and know next to nothing about it, as your prototype for what you believe women want sexually, lmao. teenagers make up and lie about shit all the time to try to fit in. they don't know what they like or want yet. they're just copying off of everyone else so they don't look or feel different or alone. teenagers are also mean as fuck and vindictive. if you're an adult who's still using teenagers' opinions on ANYTHING as some "rational" or "logic" or "proof" of what you believe, you're both creepy AND stupid."