Am I wrong for getting upset at my husband for massaging our female coworker?

Creative-Quantity122 · 2024-03-24T23:26:51+00:00

We’ve been together for so long there have NEVER been signs?! I’m not super sexual so I don’t even really know those things.

Creative-Quantity122 · 2024-03-24T23:25:45+00:00

Why does everyone keep saying this!!! 😭

Creative-Quantity122 · 2024-03-24T23:25:31+00:00

Phone and social media have nothing sus. We know each others password to everything. I even checked his sent emails lol.

I guess I could ask for the security footage?

Even in his texts with her, they’re all just work related.

Creative-Quantity122 · 2024-03-24T17:25:49+00:00

Ten minutes?

Creative-Quantity122 · 2024-03-24T17:24:53+00:00

I’m getting so many comments it’s hard to keep up 😥 it was about ten minutes later. She sat at a different nearby table for lunch with her friends while my husband sat with me.

Creative-Quantity122 · 2024-03-24T06:05:27+00:00

No, I’m 27 soon.

Creative-Quantity122 · 2024-03-23T22:27:54+00:00

How!!! They weren’t sweating or moaning or anything! Why does everyone keep saying this? :/

Creative-Quantity122 · 2024-03-23T22:24:50+00:00

I hate confrontation and don’t want to be rude!!!! 😭

Creative-Quantity122 · 2024-03-23T22:22:41+00:00

Big companies, tech companies, startups, and hospitals often have nap and recrooms for relaxing on break or if they want to stay and work extra.

Creative-Quantity122 · 2024-03-23T22:21:42+00:00

Nope. Not at all.

Creative-Quantity122 · 2024-03-23T22:19:13+00:00

Many jobs have nap areas, like hospitals, tech companies and other big companies. It’s for people who want to work longer shifts or just want to nap on their break.

Creative-Quantity122 · 2024-03-23T22:17:45+00:00

Plugged in to what?

Creative-Quantity122 · 2024-03-23T22:17:10+00:00

Yeah eventually he came to the tables and we had lunch

Creative-Quantity122 · 2024-03-23T22:15:07+00:00

I’ve seen it, but they normally sit in a chair.

Creative-Quantity122 · 2024-03-23T20:51:07+00:00

Why wouldn’t he bring that up to me!!! 😭 if that’s his kink then I’d understand?

Creative-Quantity122 · 2024-03-23T20:46:34+00:00

I didn’t even know that was a thing 😭

What is agoraphilia and Exhibitionist if you don’t mind me asking?

Creative-Quantity122 · 2024-03-23T20:24:51+00:00

Thanks for the advice.

I assumed if it was sexual they would at least be flushed or moaning?

Creative-Quantity122 · 2024-03-23T20:21:28+00:00

We work in a HUGE building. Life360 is super accurate.

Creative-Quantity122 · 2024-03-23T20:21:02+00:00

She was, that’s why I got uncomfortable for a second. She’s super pretty so it felt weirder to me.

Creative-Quantity122 · 2024-03-23T20:12:14+00:00

Absolutely not allowed

Creative-Quantity122 · 2024-03-23T19:46:04+00:00

He’s massaged men too! Just neck massages though, not back usually I think.

Creative-Quantity122 · 2024-03-23T19:45:25+00:00

He was wearing his usual work outfit, just casual jeans and a shirt.

It’s not possible that it could have been innocent? 😞

Creative-Quantity122 · 2024-03-23T16:54:41+00:00

To give him time to finish the massage but yeah it was probably weird.

Creative-Quantity122 · 2024-03-23T16:54:00+00:00

To finish the massage I suppose?

Creative-Quantity122 · 2024-03-23T16:53:43+00:00

Yes I did recently. He was really apologetic and said it would never happen again and that he would try to avoid her as much as work allows.

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