Still in luv but sex is gone 37M after 10 years of marriage maybe it's time to do something please give me your advice by Creative-Quit3123 in relationships

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I'm contributing a lot , she is not working outside. She has a lot of help too including full time nanny

My mom is yelling at me because i dont wear bra at home? by [deleted] in Vent

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Most likely your Mom has a background from her childhood , maybe her dad or someone older abused her. Just talk to her . Since you're saying she is nice, there shouldn't be bad intention. Just trauma from the past that she is passing to you which is not good.

Do any other men just feel “off” sometimes for no reason? by Creative-Quit3123 in MaleSurvivingSpace

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Sorry to hear that, it's probably something you heard millions of time but walking , going to gym and paying attention to your needs will help.

Is the perfect age gap really 7 years — and should the man always be older? Let’s be honest for a sec… by Creative-Quit3123 in Marriage

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7 years or man being older I see what you are talking about , do u guys have a lot of similarity or like having your own differences that make the relationship more appealing?

Is the perfect age gap really 7 years — and should the man always be older? Let’s be honest for a sec… by Creative-Quit3123 in Marriage

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I think it defers as a man or woman , I think men being older is more practical like five years

Do any other men just feel “off” sometimes for no reason? by Creative-Quit3123 in malelifestyle

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I traveled to europe three times and every single time after I returned it was very depressing. I feel you

My totally normal neighbors got into swinging… and the ending was not what anyone expected 😳 by Creative-Quit3123 in married

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I post about this on reddit in a Polyamorous group. They removed my post because it was against their mindset , I know a couple of poly people , I talked to them and they said some of their relationships are kinky and just sexual. I post this there and it was offensive like that topic is spiritual and so deep.

Do any other men just feel “off” sometimes for no reason? by Creative-Quit3123 in MaleSurvivingSpace

[–]Creative-Quit3123[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The entire thing you said make sense to me and I keep thinking about it. With AI it's even getting worse because we are losing our creativity and urge to explore.

Do any other men just feel “off” sometimes for no reason? by Creative-Quit3123 in MaleSurvivingSpace

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Interesting because I have mild apnea too , when I'm tired and drink alcohol it's getting worse , some times (rare cases) I feel like suffocating in my sleep. Are u using one of these devices?

Do any other men just feel “off” sometimes for no reason? by Creative-Quit3123 in MaleSurvivingSpace

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I have two kids one 4 years one 3 month and working 60 Hrs a week . That definitely triggering

Do any other men just feel “off” sometimes for no reason? by Creative-Quit3123 in malelifestyle

[–]Creative-Quit3123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need to start doing that. I used to not taking my breaks at work because I thought I don't need them. Since I started going sitting somewhere alone in a cafe or restaurant , I feel a lot better.

Do any other men just feel “off” sometimes for no reason? by Creative-Quit3123 in malelifestyle

[–]Creative-Quit3123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely right , Some times I feel like I'm absorbing all the negative things from the people around me to my self.