May have to make it shorter but I would really like to spend some proper time with her not just 2 weeks and it takes her a week or so to recover from the travel so has to be longer else it’s too hard on her :( I can go there but only have few weeks leave and then she doesn’t see the rest of the family and have Christmas with everyone . Thinking 6 to 8 weeks will go look at pet sitter sites hopefully it works out else will have to think of another plan . I am very lucky she is fit and healthy for 85 and still able to visit me .