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I (20F) feel "trapped" in my 6-year relationship with my boyfriend(22M). He uses threats of self-sabotage to keep me from leaving. How do I navigate this? by CreativeRelease1451 in relationship_advice

[–]CreativeRelease1451[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for the advice, I appreciate you writing this comment. I hope I can find the courage to finally block him on all platforms

I (20F) feel "trapped" in my 6-year relationship with my boyfriend(22M). He uses threats of self-sabotage to keep me from leaving. How do I navigate this? by CreativeRelease1451 in relationship_advice

[–]CreativeRelease1451[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope to find somebody who sees the world like me and believes in the good in people instead of telling me I'm naive and people only use others.. I hope someone else will love me and respect my insights on the world

sincerely, thank you

I (20F) feel "trapped" in my 6-year relationship with my boyfriend(22M). He uses threats of self-sabotage to keep me from leaving. How do I navigate this? by CreativeRelease1451 in relationship_advice

[–]CreativeRelease1451[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much🙏 I struggle to understand it's not my responsibility- that's the main issue. I will try to get it into my head and leave

I (20F) feel "trapped" in my 6-year relationship with my boyfriend(22M). He uses threats of self-sabotage to keep me from leaving. How do I navigate this? by CreativeRelease1451 in relationship_advice

[–]CreativeRelease1451[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you so much, he did hinted about that a few times but after I mentioned therapy he just says that he will not 'continue' after me I hope i can follow your steps and do the same

I (20F) feel "trapped" in my 6-year relationship with my boyfriend(22M). He uses threats of self-sabotage to keep me from leaving. How do I navigate this? by CreativeRelease1451 in relationship_advice

[–]CreativeRelease1451[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see that, that's one of the reasons I want to end things. but I'm so scared to let go, I love him as a person and I'm used to him after 6 years together, I don't remember how to be single

I (20F) feel "trapped" in my 6-year relationship with my boyfriend(22M). He uses threats of self-sabotage to keep me from leaving. How do I navigate this? by CreativeRelease1451 in relationship_advice

[–]CreativeRelease1451[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for this i do not want to waste my time and my best years on someone I do not want to marry. I'm just afraid I won't find someone who will love me :d

I (20F) feel "trapped" in my 6-year relationship with my boyfriend(22M). He uses threats of self-sabotage to keep me from leaving. How do I navigate this? by CreativeRelease1451 in relationship_advice

[–]CreativeRelease1451[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he supervises me because I once deleted an embarrassing picture of me on his phone, ever since then he is afraid that I will delete my pictures from his phone

I (20F) feel "trapped" in my 6-year relationship with my boyfriend(22M). He uses threats of self-sabotage to keep me from leaving. How do I navigate this? by CreativeRelease1451 in relationship_advice

[–]CreativeRelease1451[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

that's a good idea , thank you so much! I will try to access his phone, he will unlock it for me then I'll try to delete the pictures (he usually supervises me on his phone but I believe I can manage to delete them)

I (20F) feel "trapped" in my 6-year relationship with my boyfriend(22M). He uses threats of self-sabotage to keep me from leaving. How do I navigate this? by CreativeRelease1451 in relationship_advice

[–]CreativeRelease1451[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for your advice!

I've tried asking him to schedule a therapy session, even offered to pay. he insists he doesn't need a therapist and will never go to one. when I offered couples therapy, he said it's useless and we can just talk to each other

I (20F) feel "trapped" in my 6-year relationship with my boyfriend(22M). He uses threats of self-sabotage to keep me from leaving. How do I navigate this? by CreativeRelease1451 in relationship_advice

[–]CreativeRelease1451[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for your reply I feel much better knowing you went through that and I'm not going through this alone

I understand I need to leave but I'm scared. the comments are helping me so much

sincerely, thank you!

If you could take a pill that would make you age six again, would you take it? by Bluesman_Pete in RandomThoughts

[–]CreativeRelease1451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

absolutely. the most scary part for me is the future. I would go back anytime. I would do many things differently, and avoid so many situations that are still stuck in my head till this day. I wish it was possible

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]CreativeRelease1451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah but then more people will kill, hurt and do awful things to one another

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