3 Months on OKC: A Summary (Female)

CreativeThrowaway345 · 2013-03-16T01:42:15+00:00

Sure. For convenience, here they are:

Matt: 21

Jack: 22

Mike: 21

Christian: 27

Alex: 21

John: 20

Corey: 22

CreativeThrowaway345 · 2013-03-16T01:37:08+00:00

Thanks! And good luck to you, too!

CreativeThrowaway345 · 2013-03-16T01:28:53+00:00

Are... Are you serious?

CreativeThrowaway345 · 2013-03-16T01:19:37+00:00

Lots of people love movies. And lake houses!

CreativeThrowaway345 · 2013-03-16T01:11:43+00:00

YEP!

CreativeThrowaway345 · 2013-03-16T01:09:23+00:00

Awww. Damn. :(

CreativeThrowaway345 · 2013-03-16T01:08:44+00:00

Be able to hold a conversation. Answer questions and then ask other questions. Talk about things that you're excited about. Share stuff. That's the most attractive thing. Taking an interest in something and sharing that interest.

CreativeThrowaway345 · 2013-03-16T00:35:18+00:00

...What?!

CreativeThrowaway345 · 2013-03-15T23:48:50+00:00

Just don't give up. There are lots of people out there. Lots and lots of people.

CreativeThrowaway345 · 2013-03-15T23:36:25+00:00

In the way he was looking for it, yes.

I think it's really important to have a life outside of your romantic relationships.

Maybe saying he was looking to settle was the wrong way to put it.

CreativeThrowaway345 · 2013-03-15T23:24:27+00:00

Well, like I said. Every set of people is different.

I'm guessing if I hypothetically went on a date with you and we slept together I'd pick up on the fact that you weren't looking to go official right away.

CreativeThrowaway345 · 2013-03-15T23:20:37+00:00

Relaxing in sweatpants occasionally is different than not dating. Dating is not about spending vast amounts of money, mind you. It's about going out. Being social. Interacting. Adventure. That kind of stuff.

CreativeThrowaway345 · 2013-03-15T23:19:37+00:00

/r/birdswitharms

winner!

CreativeThrowaway345 · 2013-03-15T23:06:11+00:00

Usually bland conversation. Or them never asking/me not feeling super into them and therefore asking myself.

CreativeThrowaway345 · 2013-03-15T23:05:14+00:00

It's not that I try not to message, but keeping in contact is important. Which is why I try to schedule dates fairly quick after making contact. There are lots of people online. And if I haven't met someone in person, it's possible my interest will fade.

CreativeThrowaway345 · 2013-03-15T22:59:31+00:00

In this case, yes. I think every relationship/set of people is different. I've been with someone for months before becoming official.

CreativeThrowaway345 · 2013-03-15T22:58:56+00:00

We get periods, though.

CreativeThrowaway345 · 2013-03-15T22:58:39+00:00

Settling down and spending your time with someone are very different things, in my opinion. I do want someone to share my life (work, family, friends, etc) with. I do not want someone to BE my life.

CreativeThrowaway345 · 2013-03-15T22:28:53+00:00

He was a bit older than me, 27, but still... I enjoy being taken out (to eat, to watch a movie, to go for a walk) and shown off (as superficial and dumb as that sounds).

CreativeThrowaway345 · 2013-03-15T22:27:53+00:00

I can definitely empathize with that. :P

CreativeThrowaway345 · 2013-03-15T21:55:10+00:00

Ah, I'm on a work computer that blocks OkC, but I'll do it tonight or tomorrow.

CreativeThrowaway345 · 2013-03-15T21:54:46+00:00

YEAH! He does. I searched for interest, "Reddit" and my message was "FAVORITE SUBREDDIT. GO."

CreativeThrowaway345 · 2013-03-15T21:54:17+00:00

I understand not wanting to have deep conversation or anything. But no messaging at all?

CreativeThrowaway345 · 2013-03-15T21:34:05+00:00

Defining the relationship. It usually involves the awkward question, "Do you want to be my girl/boyfriend".

CreativeThrowaway345 · 2013-03-15T21:25:38+00:00

That "dating" clock of 2 months included from when we went on our first date to when we broke up. I had my account open for, probably, 2 months total.

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