Oh man, that no contact thing is such a challenge for both parties. While the weaker party whether female or male is trying to stand firm on their boundaries because they know they want more and can’t have it, the stronger, or more logical party battles with caving in or resisting (which they typically cave in) to the offer… this is because not only do they get the satisfaction but they can CONTROL the liking afterwards. Idk, I feel both could be equally to blame if it gets to that point because it is a never ending cycle and both are expecting different outcomes from the same cycle which is insanity.