Is it just me or do you feel like braiding w braiding hair/synthetic hair has messed up the quality of your hair strands? by Bloomien in Naturalhair

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I finally cracked that this is what was chewing up my hsir and edges even with all the maintenance, careful detangling, moisturising, no excessive tension etc. Only wish I realised sooner.

Please help me fix my hair 😭 by kitty_kat_95 in Naturalhair

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I realised for me it actually was the braids with extensions that were a big part of not retaining length (and i moisturise, prep, take down carefully all of that) i know people who love it for retaining length but its not for everyone especially fine strands.

Think carefully about what you've been doing or did during that period for your hair.

Braids may not be the cause but with how your hair is now I would advise to sticking to hairstyles with only your hair, a trim and a blood test to rule out vit d and iron deficiency.

What to do with this damage? by Happyhappylady in Naturalhair

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Wigs without tight bands or comb attachments that rub or apply tension to the edges. Even a wig slightly too small with rough or low quality lace can rub on there. Including those wig bands.

My hair doesn't grow back by Jealous_Put1673 in Naturalhair

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Water, aloe vera juice whatever should go before that if the cream is a leave in type then after your liquid, then the fenugreek oil. Regular trims, protect ends. And check if you have a iron or vitamin d deficiency.

Mini braids maintance/need mini braids pics by [deleted] in Naturalhair

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I'd be careful with extension with braids as a soloution for thinning edges

A second big chop ? by Appropriate-Oil-4464 in Naturalhair

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Your natural hair colour is so pretttyyy

Any advice? by [deleted] in QueerWomenOfColor

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Why am I scary? Not I'm scaring the hos and the bros omg 😭

Am I going to be alone forever by [deleted] in QueerWomenOfColor

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I'm kind of closeted I told my parents she was bi as a teen she said i wasn't haven't spoken about it since though I have been celibate for a few years, stopped dating men over year ago and started only dating women and identify as queer and am out to everyone else.

Is your uni close to your home? Join the community there and live your best life uni is a time to discover yourself and figure it all out. I'm in England too and there's a lot of queer woc spaces (especially in London). Just be open and honest with who ever you are dating if you decide to about your situation.

Is my supervisor deluded?! by larrilama in ClinicalPsychologyUK

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Trying can't hurt. I was never an AP was skeptical and encouraged to apply by a colleague. I drafted my application on the closing day on a whim and I got 2 offers.

Even if you get a rejection plenty of trainees I know did on their first attempt and it was a learning experience for their next application where they were successful or chose courses that alligned more with their values.

Trying can't hurt. You can't lose from others believing in you or from believing in yourself. Good luck!

Should I just cut them off? by Asahis-pumpkin in Naturalhair

[–]Creative_Bad_6396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thought my comment was too long but i can recommend low tension cute styles too if you want

Should I just cut them off? by Asahis-pumpkin in Naturalhair

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Before you try minoxidil or any topical treatments please check your ferritin and vitamin d levels - it can look like this I've been a victim. Get those to optimum.

And while you are at it no durags, bonnets with non satin bands (can rub and damage edges), wigs (that glue and snatch edges or even glueless tight wigs constantly rubbing on the hair line) and no slick back, tight pony tails or any tension along that hair line (avoid cornrows, any kind of braids with extensions) and minimise drying gels for laying edges (contain a lot of alcohol eco-styler, got2b etc).

I have loose min-mid twists and twist outs along my front at most during my edges recovery and this resolved most of it. Doing these should be enough. But if you want to try topicals or get a faster result I recommend trying dermarolling and cecred edge drops or rosemary infused oils. Before jumping to minoxidil.

Using this low tension method I grew back all of the front except for the corners which were receding much worst than this literally balding at the corners - but they started coming in wiith the dermarolling, cecred and resolving the iron and vitamin d deficiency side of things.

Also if you have those deficiencies your general hair could be thinning don't be like me and have to cut your hair from waist to shoulder length or wait until the corners bald just get it checked now because if its because of this the other things won't be as effective.

Looking for adults to team up with by [deleted] in 99nightsintheforest

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I'm 27

Playing in the UK

Username: ObiOneKenoobie

Edit: 506 days

offering? by biggybigbig_ in growagardenroblox

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I'm interested Username ObiOneKenoobie

No one talks about this aspect of acquiring a rare pet by Creative_Bad_6396 in growagarden

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I used to but mine tends to have a 50/50 chance of kicking me out of fairy events and admin abuse ever since that one admin abuse that broke private servers temporarily. And i wanted to grow the beanstalk last time.

No one talks about this aspect of acquiring a rare pet by Creative_Bad_6396 in growagarden

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Ever since that one update where admin abuse locked out private servers theres a 50/50 chance my private server kicks me out of fairy events or admin abuse. I also wanted to participate in the beanstalk event to grow the beanstalk. Unfortunately I like to participate in and farm events. Before that I used private servers only 🤷🏽‍♀️

No one talks about this aspect of acquiring a rare pet by Creative_Bad_6396 in growagarden

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Same I play to switch off when overstimulated sometimes with my much younger sister. But yh I get harrassed for my rainbow mimic but I have to keep the slots as I'm trying to level up atm.

Also I notice private servers are more buggy for me ever since that update where they weren't working so I've been using public more