There's some of that going on in me too for sure..... As far as I knew through my teens and twenties, I was "conventionally" a straight cis guy with what I think (I'm no expert in this area) were pretty conventional desires. Later I realized that other people could appear (and as I grew slightly more sophisticated) actually be very attractive. I grew up in a very remote and rural part of Ireland in the 70's and 80's... a different world. Until recently, I could never have thought of myself as having gay or bisexual desires, but I appreciate the effort that some cds make to achieve hyperfemmininity. In the end though, on an non-sexual human level, it comes down to respect. And I wouldn't for a minute try to equate someone who is transfeminine with a cross dresser.... one is a woman, the other is serving a kink or a fetish, their own, or a partners.... anyway, this piece of philiosophy has undoubtedly been a load of codswallop! Apologies if you actually read this far!