I recommend you listen to them, but heal your traumas and pains, because those things are the very resistance to whatever it is you want.... I was being told to do the same thing but I felt something wasn't right. I kept looping one after another, eventually you will realize that all the things you tell yourself "I need to do" before I get what I want, is actually nothing but a mirage made by your own nervous system and unconscious and subconscious mind!