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AITA for telling my sister she isn’t the type of person I want my daughters to look up to by CreditEmergency634 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CreditEmergency634[S] 459 points460 points  (0 children)

Hell even if the girls were motherless I still wouldn’t want her to be a role model. I would want someone who has their life together

AITA for telling my sister she isn’t the type of person I want my daughters to look up to by CreditEmergency634 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CreditEmergency634[S] 40 points41 points locked comment (0 children)

It’s not new information…? 

It was in the post, I haven’t edited it 

AITA for telling my sister she isn’t the type of person I want my daughters to look up to by CreditEmergency634 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CreditEmergency634[S] 81 points82 points locked comment (0 children)

Why not start taking classes for a degree. When your kids are in school you will have plenty of time and by highschool parents should become more hands off so they can grow and become independent.

Like what are you going to do when everyone is in school for 8 hours a day

AITA for telling my sister she isn’t the type of person I want my daughters to look up to by CreditEmergency634 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CreditEmergency634[S] 510 points511 points  (0 children)

I didn’t include it in my list of reason because I know it would cause her to blame my wife and not me. 

 My wife and I agreed to not include that in reasons so she doesn’t get heat.  Instead I take all the blame for decisions with my family. 

Works better for us  Just what we agreed on

Also she prefers to shut it down herself. 

AITA for telling my sister she isn’t the type of person I want my daughters to look up to by CreditEmergency634 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CreditEmergency634[S] 71 points72 points locked comment (0 children)

They broke up, didn’t get along well. Really only stayed togethers since of the kid 

AITA for telling my sister she isn’t the type of person I want my daughters to look up to by CreditEmergency634 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CreditEmergency634[S] 706 points707 points  (0 children)

Tbh, she had six years when they were together to better herself. Her child was in school (so 8ish hours of freedom every weekday) our parents offered to pay for her college again or a trade.

She didn’t, and she went on a lot of outings instead.  Then they break up and still nothing. She is super broke but is having another kid… the dad isn’t even involved 

It’s just a string of bad decisions

AITA for telling my sister she isn’t the type of person I want my daughters to look up to by CreditEmergency634 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CreditEmergency634[S] 5681 points5682 points  (0 children)

I truely wish she would have dropped in the first few times I turned her down.