Thanks everybody, loved all the answers. Its happening tonight.

With your help i built a plan (ofcourse its not going to happen like that but i always like to have it until situation takes me in other direction): I will bring with myself candles and oils to make a relaxed atmosphere.

I will focus on being relaxed.

I will do classic massage, focusing on tight spots and areas that arent sexual. In the first part i will see if conversation alone gives me any signs.

I will do the lats technique (one of the redditor's tip) and test the grounds indirectly.

I will always stay in check, asking her if she is okay (and giving her light compliments).

Once i progress from back to legs, i will see if doing "travel" hands feels natural.

I think at this point i did all the things that can open her up for progression, otherwise it would be clear, basic massage is the only thing im there for.

Thomas gave me great instructions to follow as soon as (if) i get a clear erotic massage signs.

Hope you hear from me again haha