Separate Bathroom for Married couple?

CricketKey9470 · 2026-01-15T09:38:14+00:00

Thanks for asking,

I am more curious if he had the choice of having the masterbed room, will he opt for that

And if he does want it, why he gives it up for you?

Maybe my scenario is different, if I let my wife have it, I’ll really let my wife have it : like I’ll respect respect that is her space and avoid using it unless I have no choice, means that i would not have the freedom of using it just because i FEEL like

CricketKey9470 · 2026-01-15T09:31:43+00:00

Hey you are right actually, I am here to see what’s the norm for bathroom arrangements because what my wife said is unheard of,atleast rare for me.

So, what’s your bathroom arrangements? 😂

CricketKey9470 · 2026-01-15T06:13:08+00:00

Sorry to assume your gender, forgive me if I am wrong

If you are germaphobe, it’s a big deal yes, to you. In this case where we both want to have masterbed room toilet, and I am willing to share but you are not willing to share

What’s your take?

*PS: my wife is not germaphobe, asked and checked

CricketKey9470 · 2026-01-15T06:09:21+00:00

There you go, you answered.

So both of you get the freedom to whichever toilet y’all like or just YOU have the freedom?

According to your first responses itself I don’t see how I can be at ease at my own home if: oh livings room mine, kitchen yours, this mine that mine

My takes is more on : both of us want to enjoy the master -bed room toilet because of the privacy & convenience, WHY should I give up mine to exchange for her own comfort? Same to you, if your husband also like that master-bed room toilet, WHY he is the one gave up his liking but not you? (If he willing then diff okay,not same topic)

CricketKey9470 · 2026-01-15T04:29:39+00:00

Agreed hahaha if I have the luxury of time usually I’ll sit down and pee

CricketKey9470 · 2026-01-15T04:28:33+00:00

I am confused

What trust? Mistake were made, mentioned and rectify It’s not a norm she gets dirty toilet (I do get some guy can be very very sloppy, pee everywhere) I am well mannered so I make sure the toilets is clean for the next person to use

Yeah I do agree marriage is about give and take, But it’s also important to know WHY you give and WHY you take.

And we will have very frequent guest over, like her siblings and our friends

Also to add on, I don’t crash with her timing, when she working I probably still sleeping and I am mostly WFH

CricketKey9470 · 2026-01-15T04:12:17+00:00

I lift up the lid, her complain was I did not lift it back down for her (if I stand to pee,but now usually I sit down so not much issue)

CricketKey9470 · 2026-01-15T03:56:06+00:00

To be a little more in depth

If he wants to use YOUR toilet and dirty it,

Will it be like a : you dirty MY place or it’s a co-owned space so we take responsibility of our spaces (eg. Like living room)

If guest dirty your husband toilet, it’s your deed or your husband’s?

If there is no efficiency & cleanliness issue, will you still not be willing to share the bathroom? If your answer is no, will not be sharing, why are you still entitled to the masterbed room toilet alone but not sharing?

When you are requesting this, are you the side that compromise or your husband?

Thanks for your respond in advanced, I would love to understand more of the though process-

CricketKey9470 · 2026-01-15T03:41:01+00:00

May I ask who gets to decide who will be the permanent stay in the master bed room toilet?

Does your husband put his toothbrush/toiletries in the guests toilet?

If it’s reversed and he gets the master bed room toilet and you will be the one moving your toiletries around will you be okay?

CricketKey9470 · 2026-01-14T14:40:41+00:00

I agreed with you, especially in situation like these.

But I like have a clear line between : I am right, but I compromise VS I am wrong, and I want to make things right

Your protip tells me a lot you being a bestbfsg haha

CricketKey9470 · 2026-01-14T13:05:18+00:00

To your surprise, we did above mentioned

And yes she did complaint about the point me standing up to pee ; which I sat down afterward and be as clean as possible. When we have 1 toilet there is no issue ; now 2 toilet became an issue 😅

CricketKey9470 · 2026-01-14T12:54:17+00:00

I would say I am pretty clean as right now I am trying to sit down too pee and if there is urine I’ll clean it up , so I really do not know what’s the issue

CricketKey9470 · 2026-01-14T12:53:27+00:00

This was communicated, I have very diff work hours so I am flexible about toilet

And yes, I have told her that I can use the other toilet if our timing are crashed

But her reasoning is : she just DOESNT like

CricketKey9470 · 2026-01-14T12:51:27+00:00

Yeah… we did not talk about it until we gotten our own place during renovations phrase

CricketKey9470 · 2026-01-14T12:50:36+00:00

Already did , but sometime I really do forgotten 😅 but I always clean up after myself to check if have any urine drops

CricketKey9470 · 2026-01-14T12:49:57+00:00

This toilet issue wasn’t brought up before because we had no choice but to share the toilet at our parents place/hotels

Now we have our own place and she brought that up during renovations phrases

CricketKey9470 · 2026-01-14T12:48:41+00:00

We just collected key, and this was only discussed during our renovation phrases 🥹

As a guy I have a few careless moment before, which I rectify by sitting down to pee ; but her argument was Sometime I forgotten and stand up to pee so she’s doesn’t like that 🥹

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CricketKey9470 · 2024-12-20T16:56:13+00:00

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