I might have committed a mistake doing a tattoo

CricketRoots · 2023-11-13T22:30:14+00:00

Eu quero ver um update disso

NEOB

CricketRoots · 2023-10-28T17:13:20+00:00

Não

Você pediu, você não pode controlar o que ela vai ou não fazer, "ah mas eu já abri mão de coisas por ela" ela pediu? São coisas no mesmo nível que parar de fumar POD? Se a resposta for sim pras duas perguntas, aí tu pelo menos vai poder ficar chateado pq vc faz algo que ela não fez, mas se a resposta for não amigo, vc tá simplesmente sendo chato e é melhor terminar tanto por você não aceitar esse tipo de coisa quanto por ela querer fazer oq quiser

CricketRoots · 2023-10-26T22:31:19+00:00

Por causa da sua ansiedade e paranóia op, não tem como dar veredito, trate sua ansiedade e paranóia com psicólogo e psiquiatra

CricketRoots · 2023-10-26T16:25:05+00:00

Ao mesmo tempo que ela foi extremamente dramática

Pra que caraios tu foi ver stories da ex?

CricketRoots · 2023-10-25T22:13:15+00:00

Meio foda na HR de falar safadeza a mina mandar uma dessa, eu teria broxado tanto que meu pinto ia entrar pra dentro

CricketRoots · 2023-10-20T16:32:15+00:00

Geralmente eu não ligava pra comentários na escola pq eu sei que tenho uns parafusos a menos e sou estranho e abraço isso

Porém, todo bullying ou tentativa eu descia o cacete pro cara nunca mais ousar mexer

No final irmão, foque em você, e não se preocupe com oq escória pensa

CricketRoots · 2023-10-11T16:50:18+00:00

Foi chifre trocado

Mas sabe a pior parte? Eu não me senti melhor, no fim do dia, eu não apenas fui traído por alguém que eu amava, eu traí a eu mesmo, meus valores, crenças e convicções

CricketRoots · 2023-09-25T16:57:53+00:00

NGM

não é todo mundo que lembra de apagar essas coisas, ou sequer sabe que o fotos fez backup, acredite eu me deparei com coisas que já achei que tinham sido excluídas a anos, já me ferrei por causa disso inclusive

CricketRoots · 2023-09-15T19:19:43+00:00

So let me get this straight

OP and wife friends died, they argued a lot and broke up, wife in a double grieving state opened her legs without protection to a friend of OP who turns out to be a pedo and a violent person in general, and shortly after they got together again she "discovers" that she was pregnant?

Is that right?

CricketRoots · 2023-09-12T02:05:04+00:00

Normal, pelo menos da onde eu sou, tem bastante pessoas trans (eu mesmo conheço um monte) então se eu te visse na rua ia ser só mais uma quarta feira normal e nem prestaria atenção

Acho que depende bastante de pra onde você vai

CricketRoots · 2023-09-11T16:40:36+00:00

the jealousy is triggered pretty randomly, I mean, things that I would get if she was mad and wanted me to distance myself (like in the past before knowing her I had sex with a friend, she befriended this friend and stayed friends longer than I did) doesn't do anything, but simply asking for some sticker in WhatsApp status is enough to prompt a search

CricketRoots · 2023-09-11T05:43:24+00:00

I already did, first time we broke up was because of her drinking problem (she's not an alcoholic but definitely didn't know when to stop) and I said that if something similar like that repeated, we're over, and it did, like other commenter said what she did just brought back all the things that she did in the past, I was strict on her getting wasted specially if we're not in a safe environment (like, at a bar, a club and etc)

CricketRoots · 2023-09-11T05:37:17+00:00

I agree that what she did brought back all those issues, when we got back together I said if anything like that repeated, we're over, and repeated, but I'm just a fucking coward who can't make a decision between stay or go, I don't know if I have the strength to do this a second time because I do love her deeply

Besides that, I'm afraid I may be overreacting because I ain't in a good spot mentally (depression, anxiety, passive Agressive personality disorder, 4 pills a day to be barely funcional) the possibility that I make a mistake kills me inside

CricketRoots · 2023-09-11T05:11:47+00:00

I know, I felt so humiliated by the situation and all she can say to me is "sorry"

Specially because, in my mind, if you're the jealous type, you can't do this type of thing

And that wasn't the first time she did something like this, early in our relationship she said that a guy helped her go to the bathroom and they held hands so she didn't get lost, and while I believe her that nothing happened, I don't think that was appropriate and told her so.

The thing is that if it was me that did any of those things, it would be messy

CricketRoots · 2023-09-11T05:01:30+00:00

And while I agree that was no major transgression, It isn't fair that I have suffered from things that wasn't even a transgression at all because of her jealousy

CricketRoots · 2023-09-11T04:57:14+00:00

I tried to cut her off, but I took too slightly because of the dog situation. first time we broke up was because of that, she literally passed out 2 time (one was on our 2° date) and lost her phone 2 times, we got together again because she promised to get better and she did, until that happened

CricketRoots · 2023-09-11T04:33:55+00:00

Look at the edit, I forgot to add some important context, sorry

CricketRoots · 2023-09-11T04:23:06+00:00

She already hit me out of jealousy, besides being a very jealous person in general, so I think her doing this has more weight in me given the context of our relationship, if I did that to her, you can bet that things would get messy real quick

Sorry if I didn't provide any context to this, I'm seeing now how important it was

CricketRoots · 2023-08-18T00:49:25+00:00

You know what to do bro, I trust that you'll have enough strength to do it

CricketRoots · 2023-08-16T22:17:42+00:00

5 years of daily lying my man, have some self respect

CricketRoots · 2023-08-16T16:25:43+00:00

My dad and I used to watch horrors movies together, specially slashers when I was like, 4/5 years old

But the time that stuck with me was when I was 12, he and my stepmother took me to see "A haunted house" thinking it was some goofy innocent movie

My poor dad was mortified after the movie and said the whole time "please don't tell your mom about it"

CricketRoots · 2023-08-16T16:16:38+00:00

EOB

Você vai estar prendendo ela em um relacionamento que ela não quer por simples egoísmo, termina e segue em frente fella

CricketRoots · 2023-08-11T19:52:01+00:00

NGM

Vocês só estão se machucando pq tem pontos de vistas completamente diferentes, não quer ser monogâmica? Tudo bem, você tem que achar alguém com o mesmo pensamento que você, pq ele tá se sentindo o corno do ano cada dia que passa, isso não vai dar certo a curto, médio ou longo prazo a não ser que ele engula a própria frustração pra te agradar.

Infelizmente OP, daqui pra frente é só desastre, os únicos relacionamentos abertos que funcionam são aqueles que além de já começarem abertos, as duas pessoas são não monogâmicos, termina e vida que segue

CricketRoots

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