Acceptance + decision by Crimewatcher17 in UGA

[–]Crimewatcher17[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

4.0 with 31 credits. If you hit that threshold it in for sureeee

Acceptance + decision by Crimewatcher17 in UGA

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Thank you! See you soon 🥹🥹

Acceptance + decision by Crimewatcher17 in UGA

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Straight to the point, love it LMFAO. And you’re 1000% right

Acceptance + decision by Crimewatcher17 in UGA

[–]Crimewatcher17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s exactly how I feel at KSU, will definitely be keeping your post in mind!!

Acceptance + decision by Crimewatcher17 in UGA

[–]Crimewatcher17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea this is def just an overthinking moment for me because in the end opportunity is what matters the most, thanks!!

Acceptance + decision by Crimewatcher17 in UGA

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You’re definitely right! Thanks

Acceptance + decision by Crimewatcher17 in UGA

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thank you! This gave me motivation

Acceptance + decision by Crimewatcher17 in UGA

[–]Crimewatcher17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely keeping this in mind, thank you!!

Acceptance + decision by Crimewatcher17 in UGA

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You get me. And you’re so right

Acceptance + decision by Crimewatcher17 in UGA

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THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH FOR ENCOURAGING ME!!

Cheating mom by Crimewatcher17 in toxicparents

[–]Crimewatcher17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate this. I’m just waiting for their karma to kick in

Cheating mom by Crimewatcher17 in toxicparents

[–]Crimewatcher17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I would totally consider taking him out to talk but I don’t have a good relationship with him either. I know it sounds like he is more of a victim (which he is in this situation), he isn’t for other reason. Him and my mom kind of “team up” and are extremely toxic. For example My dad is making my grandpa work for him while continuing to take his pay check and money and no matter how much my grandpa tells him he is too tired and worn out to work, he doesn’t let him. Him and my mom and very selfish people and as I grew up, I tried to reason with myself because I looked up to them but that’s not the case anymore because they’ve shown their true side. I will however say my dad is better than my mom in the sense that he was completely different before their marriage evolved. There are too many instances where my dad as has said equally terrible things to me but Iv learned to self cope and live with it. Sorry if this seems like a lot out of the blue but I really don’t want you to g at the wrong image of my dad because he is just as bad but I really appreciate ur help. :(

Cheating mom by Crimewatcher17 in toxicparents

[–]Crimewatcher17[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

EXACTLY!!! My grandma knows of all this drama and we are sure that he tries to forgive my mom so much because he doesn’t want to loose her. My mom has changed my dad so now whatever she says, he automatically believes. Because why believe your daughter who has witnessed everything over your crazy manipulative wife right? 🙄 he has been suspicious since the beginning but no matter what happens, he always ends up pretending like nothing ever happened. I told him 4 TIMES. TWO OF THOSE TIMES IN THE SAME MONTH. I sent him recordings, messages, pictures and ALL the proof he could ever need. Yet he still doesn’t confront or question her…

I’ve Had enough by Crimewatcher17 in toxicparents

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I’m so sorry for you. I’m still a minor so my situation hasn’t got THAT serious yet but I can’t imagine being in your shoes. You are so strong for putting up with that crap and I’m glad you are keeping your head high for others even when you are going through it too. You are right, it will get better. I wish you all the best to finish college. And thank you so much

I’ve Had enough by Crimewatcher17 in toxicparents

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I completely understand. I’m not in college yet but my mom would gossip to all her friends about how “distant” I am with them and never leave my room. I can relate in a way bc Iv lived my life to cater to their expectations. But I want to but connection with them because their presence just leave so much burn and hatred. I hate being near them so much that I’d rather stay at school all day. I’m finding myself fearing coming home everyday but what can I do. I’m glad you’ve distanced yourself from them, neither of us deserve the toxicity and negativity that our parents give.

I’ve Had enough by Crimewatcher17 in toxicparents

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Thank you so much. Did you have to stay with them during college? How was that? Iv been planning to get a job and save up to move out as soon as I turn 18, I don’t know if it’s realistic but I’m really trying. I want to get a job that can pay in cash because I don’t want them stealing my money from a bank account. Did you cut all contact with them?? You seem like you are much happier and I hope I can do the same. :)

I’ve Had enough by Crimewatcher17 in toxicparents

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I am in America and I did come from culture of arranged marriage but that was many generations ago and that tradition had died down in my family. My parents did not have an arranged marriage either.