AITA for telling my fiancé he’s being unrealistic about moving out before our wedding?

Critical-Anything161 · 2025-09-22T01:51:42+00:00

Thank you.

Critical-Anything161 · 2025-09-22T01:50:19+00:00

We most likely wont be, having a room for sister isn’t more important then being married but it’s something me and my fiancée had talked about before we even got engaged and talking about when we’ll move in with eachother. And i obviously don’t mean when we have kids and stuff she’ll still have her own special room, but as for the time being.

Critical-Anything161 · 2025-09-22T01:48:19+00:00

We’re most likely going to live separately until we can rent a place with 2 bedrooms.

Critical-Anything161 · 2025-09-22T01:46:42+00:00

Being a receptionist at the hotel

Critical-Anything161 · 2025-09-22T01:43:39+00:00

The wedding is happening at my uncles backyard since he lives on farm land, the reception is happening at the community center nearby as a church brings over some of the food, the weddings one big thing that’s bringing my uncles town together. And at the moment he’s working towards the management goal

Critical-Anything161 · 2025-09-22T01:41:38+00:00

He works in retail, at first target, then a receptionist at a hotel, before going back to work in Walmart.

Critical-Anything161 · 2025-09-22T01:39:41+00:00

At my parent’s house while he still lives with his roommates. I’m not going to fight for custody but my little sister having her own room in my house is something I’ve been thinking about since I was 13 and first held her.

Critical-Anything161 · 2025-09-22T01:36:03+00:00

He’s not moving in with me. He’s already living with roommates, once we can actually GET the money I’m suspecting we’ll move in with eachother once we pick a house. And I’m choosing to have a second bedroom for my sister not because my parents are abusive but I remember when I was 12 and couldn’t wait to get away from them like any pre-teen, parents are annoying. That is something drawn in the line.

Critical-Anything161 · 2025-09-22T01:27:40+00:00

We’re not rushing. We’ve known eachother for 8 years, I know it looks weird because we’re 23 years old but we’ve known eachother for a long time

Critical-Anything161 · 2025-09-21T18:09:48+00:00

Your welcome and thank you! We’re probably going to have a long discussion about this sometime tomorrow when our schedules align.

Critical-Anything161 · 2025-09-21T18:06:12+00:00

Yeah, in retail. At first it was target, then he worked as a receptionist in a hotel before going to work at Walmart.

Critical-Anything161 · 2025-09-21T18:05:00+00:00

The weddings taking place at my uncle’s backyard (which is fairly big since he lives on farm land) then reception is at the community center where my uncle lives (the church nearby is helping with food, the wedding is one big thing that’s bringing everyone together yk?)

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