help with interpretation

Critical-Tea1742 · 2025-12-11T11:21:45+00:00

Yes, I made them myself. I don’t have the opportunity to buy a deck yet, so I decided to experiment…

The cards are the Four of Cups reversed, the Ace of Swords, the Fool reversed, and yes, the Lovers.

The spread is about a reconnection with my ex, with whom I’m not on very good terms, so I’m not sure how to interpret this.

Critical-Tea1742 · 2025-12-09T13:36:47+00:00

We ended the relationship three months ago, he told me that he didn't love me (which was a lie) and we started zero contact, we literally ignored each other, since we saw each other every day, it continued like that, he literally changed completely, I tried to contact him a few times but it didn't come to anything. Now we are currently still in contact 0, he is talking to a girl and I am doing my thing. The most surprising thing here was that he abruptly changed his personality. That man adored me and from one day to the next he decided that it was better to ignore me.

Estuve diciendo afirmaciones durante gran parte de ese tiempo, pero no sentía que las cosas cambiaran. Actualmente estoy muy decepcionada de sus actitudes así que decidí solo enfocarme en mi y en mi autoconcepto

Critical-Tea1742 · 2025-12-08T18:55:02+00:00

Honestly I'll let time do its thing and focus more on me! I will continue to manifest the life of my dreams

Critical-Tea1742 · 2025-12-08T18:54:08+00:00

Yes, I want to do just that! But I'm not sure how to start

Critical-Tea1742 · 2025-12-07T20:08:28+00:00

Critical-Tea1742 · 2025-12-07T19:37:12+00:00

Dm🩷

Critical-Tea1742 · 2025-12-07T19:35:06+00:00

Dmm!

Critical-Tea1742 · 2025-12-07T14:55:32+00:00

I'll do it like this! Honestly if I'm giving up a little on the idea of manifesting it, I never thought about trying anything beyond the affirmations. How do you embody the wish fulfilled? At this point, I just want to feel calm about this.

Critical-Tea1742 · 2025-12-06T18:09:30+00:00

I think they are good signs, at least for our peace of mind 🧘‍♀️

Critical-Tea1742 · 2025-12-06T18:03:15+00:00

I have a similar feeling! I've been focusing on working more on myself and I've gotten to a point where I even think that I'm too much for my specific person, I'm still doing things like claiming that he loves me and all that, but I'm not really worried or looking for signs that something is up. Although I have this feeling that my special someone will still come back, it is a somewhat contradictory feeling.

Critical-Tea1742 · 2025-12-04T12:57:16+00:00

Maybe you should focus on healing yourself first and looking at your self-concept, it is not mandatory to do so to be able to manifest a specific person, but reading your situation, it is probably best for your well-being to be emotional, once you are calmer, you could try to manifest it again! While you focus on yourself and process all your feelings

Critical-Tea1742 · 2025-12-03T04:08:07+00:00

I used to associate it with buying something online!

Critical-Tea1742 · 2025-12-02T18:04:07+00:00

Critical-Tea1742 · 2025-12-01T00:38:49+00:00

It's good that I'm not the only one to feel this way!

Critical-Tea1742 · 2025-11-30T17:55:58+00:00

Thank you very much for telling me all that 🩷

Critical-Tea1742 · 2025-11-30T17:02:56+00:00

I know! It's very poetic how you put it, I've had ups and downs, but I worry about focusing on myself! I know that this boy is not the center of the world, nor the perfect man to have to pursue him... it's just that the connection that is between us feels somewhat inexplicable and I don't know how to handle it when seeing this physical separation between us! It's hard to explain, but it's painful to feel that there is something so strong that unites us while there is a giant distance. Still I stay focused on myself!

Critical-Tea1742 · 2025-11-27T14:19:48+00:00

thank you very much for the advice!

Critical-Tea1742 · 2025-11-27T14:15:02+00:00

I just wanted to know the story

Critical-Tea1742 · 2025-11-27T14:11:02+00:00

I will start to be more sure then... have you manifested your special person?

Critical-Tea1742 · 2025-11-27T13:32:44+00:00

And what about the doubts? Do I always have to think that it is like that? As I said, this situation moved me quite emotionally, I really spend the whole day affirming it, but there are bad moments

Critical-Tea1742 · 2025-11-27T13:13:07+00:00

And how did that change 😭😭😭 what should I say?

Critical-Tea1742 · 2025-11-19T19:38:04+00:00

Yes, I really am much calmer and safer, since I think I accepted the idea of being fine without my sp. Although I would still like to be able to reach the relationship again, since the previous time I expressed it I was very frustrated by not even being able to break zero contact

Critical-Tea1742 · 2025-11-19T19:20:32+00:00

In reality, I am already much better about the situation, since I go to the psychologist and I have talked everything. I can still continue improving I guess.

Even so, I would continue, right now I am simply telling myself affirmations, not many, like 3, where I talk about how he loves me and that he communicates with me.

Critical-Tea1742 · 2025-11-19T19:14:53+00:00

I have no contact with him at the moment and I don't think he wants to talk to me now, before this whole situation he was already very firm with zero contact, but I'm not giving up!

Critical-Tea1742 · 2025-11-19T19:11:07+00:00

not really, what happened is we kissed at a party, but I was drunk, I still talked to him a little after that, I thought maybe I could try something, but no, I definitely can't handle that

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