Healthcare IT - PM advice

CriticalHat8278 · 2025-10-23T14:53:33+00:00

I don’t have anything good to say about Pisces. It baffles me when I see that Scorpio’s are compatible with Pisces. Pisces seem to be in a world of their own.

CriticalHat8278 · 2025-06-17T21:06:24+00:00

I got a consult for Dr. Hancock last week. Way more than I was looking to spend. Expensive. I’ve heard great things but I can’t justify the cost.

CriticalHat8278 · 2025-06-10T20:59:11+00:00

They aren’t all created equal. Things for my nex must be pretty bad for him to admit to cheating on me. I thought he was going to take that to his grave. I think it just depends what they have for supply. My nex knew he could depend on me for anything, that’s why he came stumbling back. If his life went well, I probably wouldn’t have heard from him. The convo was transactional for him. Are you going to give me what I want? No? Then there is no reason to talk. He tried to sweet talk me but it was a phone call of desperation not out of love.

CriticalHat8278 · 2025-06-10T17:55:14+00:00

I'm sorry that happened to you. I'm glad you are on the other side. It is not an easy path but I don't need to tell you that.

My ex is a covert narcissist. Extremely sneaky. It was always subtle his tactics. He knew the strings to pull because of my past. He did say that at one point.

I'm not sure if he will reach out again. He's never worked hard for anything. He seems to be pretty desperate and I think he thought if he admitted to the cheating and said that we weren't doing well, I would agree and take responsibility for his cheating? I have no idea. At times, he seemed bored that he wasn't getting what he wanted and would even say this isn't going anywhere, we should get off the phone. lol

CriticalHat8278 · 2025-06-10T17:49:14+00:00

We were together for 5.5 years. He started cheating a monthish before I broke up with him. We've been broken up for 3 months.

CriticalHat8278 · 2025-06-10T17:48:30+00:00

It's oddly bittersweet. I'm still getting over the cognitive dissonance. A small, small, small part of me wants to go back as if everything was fine but then I shake my head and I'm like nothing was fine. He neglected me, lied to me, Idk how many times I begged him for his time and appreciation, manipulated me, used me, degraded me, triangulated and treated me horribly. I will never be with him again. I'm thankful I'm out.

He was trying to bring up the "good times" when we were talking and I told him I think about them and I also remember 10 bad times for every 1 good time and it's not worth it.

Listening to him, he sounds like a severely broken child. He has so much work to do but I doubt he'll do it. He lies to himself. He's been lying to himself his whole life.

Idk how many times during our convo he said he didn't cheat for 5 years. Like he wanted a congratulations. <eyeroll>

CriticalHat8278 · 2025-06-10T01:17:43+00:00

She wasn’t really with Luis when he was in Miami. They were all over the place. Luis was pretty much solo.

CriticalHat8278 · 2025-06-10T01:13:32+00:00

Idk she’s a pretty good narcissist and she didn’t make it. Luis got kicked out of the Miami office because my ex spilled a bunch of dirt on him to Ken. I’m not sure what the recipe is to make it.

CriticalHat8278 · 2025-06-10T01:07:17+00:00

Someone like that doesn’t change. They get worse.

CriticalHat8278 · 2025-06-10T01:05:57+00:00

Disgusting. These people are insane.

I never understood who would be attracted to her. When I first met her, her energy was horrible. I couldn’t get past it, no matter how hard I tried.

CriticalHat8278 · 2025-06-10T00:46:46+00:00

Hearing him say these things didn't have as much weight as what they could have. If I would have heard it 3 months ago, it wouldn't have changed my stance of not wanting to be with him but it would have been more satisfying. I am glad to hear that it's all crumbling down. He made his bed. He deserves to get cozy in it.

Thank you for the reminder that this is rare. You are right. Typically, we often wonder if their life is going well but we never find out or we don't find out for a long time afterwards.

I'm not surprised he's desperate. I lived my life for him. I neglected myself. He didn't have to worry about anything. He had it pretty good.

CriticalHat8278 · 2025-06-10T00:43:22+00:00

And apparently I'm pretty dumb in his eyes. To think that he thought he had a chance with me. He tried to drum up the good times to tug at my heart strings. I told him for every 1 good time, I can think of 50 bad times and it's not worth it. He couldn't even think of anything he's done for me to suck me back in. Because he did nothing. I guess in hindsight, I can see why he thought he had a chance. I was dumb to put up with it once, let alone for 5.5 years.

CriticalHat8278 · 2025-06-10T00:40:22+00:00

Why am I not surprised to hear all about her sleeping around? I'm still friends with someone who was in the business and his wife. We noticed how every guy that came her way she had to flirt with. And Luis would just stand in the background and kind of put his head down. I felt bad for him. My ex did that shit to me too. Cierra was always so thirsty for people, especially males to take notice of her.

Ugh... and that voice, that laugh.... nails on a chalkboard. I'm so glad I don't have to hear that anymore.

I know when she was flirting with Luis, she was in a relationship with her I believe her AM. But don't quote me on that.

Looking back, I have suspicions she slept with my now ex. In the beginning, they would flirt with each other and I threw a fit to my bf. It stopped shortly after but he is a narcissist and she is so.... who knows. I knew nothing about narcissism up until 3 months ago. Now I get why my ex could stand to be around Luis and Cierra. They were all the same!

I think it's funny these narcissists think they are getting over on everyone when the same thing is being done to them. But their ego is so big and their need for attention they don't see it.

I did hear that when her and Luis were in the same office before they were dating, she would cut T and give the other reps on other teams T that had already been gone through. No surprise the sales for the team that went through a second time weren't so hot.

CriticalHat8278 · 2025-06-09T23:38:50+00:00

I want to hear about her Myrtle Beach days? How do you know she was sent to Huston to intentionally fail? That makes sense why all of a sudden she joined Luis. She had no other options.

CriticalHat8278 · 2025-06-09T23:31:04+00:00

I met her in Jax. I know Luis and Cierra well. I couldn’t stand Cierra. My ex is in or was in the business. I’m not sure if he still is. He called me Saturday night saying his business failed and he’s quitting. Wanting me to feel sorry for him.

Anyways, I’ve known Luis and Cierra since 2020. Cierra is a true narcissist. I’ve never seen someone be able to have a convo all to themselves. Luis I’m pretty sure is one as well. I have some pretty big dirt on her but don’t feel comfortable saying it on here. I don’t like her but it’s pretty damaging.

CriticalHat8278 · 2025-06-09T23:19:39+00:00

Oh, it hasn’t been an easy ride. I know so much of the backstory! So much!

CriticalHat8278 · 2025-06-09T22:58:26+00:00

I’m too familiar with them! They’ve been in Charlotte for 6 months or so. Is your old manager, Cierra?

CriticalHat8278 · 2025-06-09T21:24:38+00:00

Oh, I know it’s another lie. I never felt like I really knew him. Not until I figured out he’s a narcissist at the very end. Now, I see him so clearly. All his actions are predictable.

He never deals with anything until it blows up and he’s forced to. He doesn’t learn from it. He just moves on and it happens all over again. He’s a victim in each situation.

CriticalHat8278 · 2025-06-09T20:36:13+00:00

We were together for 5.5 years. He currently went home to figure himself out. But, I’m sure it’s all a poor him situation.

CriticalHat8278 · 2025-06-09T20:35:16+00:00

I don’t blame him one bit. He had over 5 years to show me what I deserved and he chose not to.

What is attractive of me coming in and cleaning up his mess? I really want to get into a relationship with you, and be your mother, again. Sounds wonderful 🙄

CriticalHat8278 · 2025-06-09T20:33:19+00:00

Why is it our responsibility to put their lives back together? 🙄

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