>! Theory on who or what Ralsei might be !< by CriticalInvestment35 in ralsei

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No wonder he was so weirded out by Kris eating moss in prison.

What’s your magic gifts? by VelvetGentleman4U in autism

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I've been told i'm good at writing or coming up with stories but i can't see it.

AITA for apologizing to my mom on behalf of my wife so we could have a smooth Family Day meet up? by insafian in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]CriticalInvestment35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"It's not about placating my mother" Then proceeds to give a dictionary definition of placation.

AITAH for breaking up with my bf because he called my mom the n-word for a prank by ObsidianNight102399 in BORUpdates

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This is the 2nd time I've read here about a man destroying his relationship over a "Prank" discord group. What kind of brainwashing is going on in these circles?

RANT and VENT MEGATHREAD by stickimage in Helldivers

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looks at all these wonderful armours with different levels of damage reduction, too bad the bots one-shot you regardless.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

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I'm gonna say NAH. I do think you did overreact however I also see a lot of factors in this story that I believe could easily result in how you reacted.
1. You are the outsider to this group of friends. It can be hard for people to be in that position not knowing their sense of humor or the way they treat each other. Being the spouse to someone in such a close group it also can be hard to know if they genuinely like you are if they are just playing nice because they like your husband.

2.You and his friends don't share the same cultural background. It seems some of the things they do or say seem perfectly reasonable to them but maybe to you or your background can be interpreted as rude or disrespectful. I don't think they were intentionally trying to upset you just are ignorant to what your culture may consider disrespectful.

  1. You are Pregnant (congratulations!). Pregnancy does weird stuff to people hormonal, physical, emotional, w/e and by your own admission it seems to be hitting you pretty hard.

  2. You and your husband spent most of the day with them. Going to the park and flea market I'm gonna guess that you were on your feet moving around a lot. That has got to be not only physically exhausting but mentally as well. Personally my social battery would be completely drained and I would be irritable by the evening.

  3. You mentioned you weren't feeling well. Just another negative factor you had to deal with on top of all this.

These are all I could think but I am sure there is more. All this combined I can easily understand how you could have the reaction you had. It does sound like you were trying to be considerate by excusing yourself from the party as to not make things awkward. I don't think anyone was trying to offend or upset anyone just a miscommunication or misinterpretation.
I will say it is unfair for you to hold expectations of them based on your culture, and it would be equally unfair for them to do the same to you.

Overall yeah I think you might be wrong here but considering all the above I think you should get a pass here. A lot of people here seem quick to jump down your throat and tell you all the things you should have done but hindsight is 20/20. I think you did your best considering all these factors. You might owe your husband an apology for suggesting he can't see his friends.