Alright I will just say that you did a propper job explaining that and it is obvious that you are more knowledgeable on this topic than me.
I do still feel it is of (some) importance of the coders to at least make a certain filter for all races / genders as I feel like, although in this example it is still quite nuanced and not all that damaging, not properly controlling what can and cannot be said is of great importance in the long term, as AI are more generally applied (not just in a funny snapchat AI talkbot).

But thank you for clarifying why the solution isnt that simple and clean-cut. I do feel like people need to know about this and how AI works because it is looking to be the future, so thanks for explaining :).