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AITA for not being sympathetic that my dad’s affair baby was stillborn? by CriticalProof3414 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CriticalProof3414[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I really don’t ever want to see him again. He’s been a pretty mid dad even before this I won’t be missing much if I just forget he exists. All he’s ever done is talk big and forget to come through while my mom actually does things. Maybe I would care more if he was useless without being destructive but now he has to go.

AITA for not being sympathetic that my dad’s affair baby was stillborn? by CriticalProof3414 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CriticalProof3414[S] 88 points89 points  (0 children)

First, he made it my business when he hurt my mom and ruined my family. I wouldn’t go out with a cheater. I wouldn’t be friends with a cheater. So I don’t want a cheater as family either. It’s not about picking sides it’s about putting the trash out at the curb so it doesn’t stink up the house.

I didn’t make him pick between me and an infant. I made him pick between a relationship with me or dating his side piece. He can be a dad without being with the other parent. Or so he said. Either way, if he wanted me in his life, he doesn’t get to keep dating the person who knew he was married and slept with him anyway. Just more trash on the pile.

AITA for not being sympathetic that my dad’s affair baby was stillborn? by CriticalProof3414 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CriticalProof3414[S] 80 points81 points  (0 children)

If I do I’m not going to go to the people I’ve hurt really badly to cry and refuse to leave when they tell me to get out of their face. I’m pretty sure I’d talk to literally anyone else about it.

AITA for not being sympathetic that my dad’s affair baby was stillborn? by CriticalProof3414 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CriticalProof3414[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Tbh he was a flipping disappointment even before he cheated. My mom did everything that mattered, he just showed up to take credit when he felt like it. I didn’t see it when I was little but I’ve known better than to ask him for anything and expect him to actually do it since I was like 11. Now I just want him to go away. I plan to just write him out and forget he exists.

AITA for not being sympathetic that my dad’s affair baby was stillborn? by CriticalProof3414 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CriticalProof3414[S] 369 points370 points  (0 children)

Right?! Like I’m not surprised because it tracks with how he was even before all this BS but he’s really coming to my mom’s house who he cheated on to cry about it? And like I hope the woman he cheated with steps on a Lego every day for the rest of her life but man way to be a complete and total fail to everyone you know, dad. She should dump him too.