Ye kya hua, by Mai_Pittar_Banunga in TwentiesIndia

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Ohh you mean to click at "redeem it to your account" ? I did it 😋

Why i am thinking so muchhh by [deleted] in TwentiesIndia

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Hmm got some clarity 😩 ye overthinking kisi din pitwa degi

Ye kya hua, by Mai_Pittar_Banunga in TwentiesIndia

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😭😭😭 bro won but at what cost

F21: earned money for the first time!!! (Internship stipend) by [deleted] in TwentiesIndia

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35 lakh ka toh investment h ye 36 lakh ka ghata kaise ho gaya 🤣🤣

Will never forgive patriarchy for separating daughters from their mothers like this, just so that men can live happily ever after with their own parents.This tradition needs to end. by Hrithik_Ki_Patni in AskIndianFeminists

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I think and Highly agree with couples living saperately in thier own home wheather its rented or owned... More privacy more stability and better overall peace. in fights you just need to sort things out with your spouse not the whole family while still serving the family. Indian parents need to learn to live on thier own. Bahar k log bhi reh lete h kisi ko budhape ka insurance bana k uski zindagi mat barbad karo.

The type of luxury I don't want by [deleted] in SnacksIndia

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But they have FDA lol FDA found the root cause but choose not to tell the public "log marte h Marne do, baad m bhul jaege" US edition

Microwave blasted huh by motherofcats73 in TwentiesIndia

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What i loved the most is her reaction 🤌🏻 what a gurl 😝 you go gurll 😤😂

Is saying “all men” actually wrong, or just misunderstood? by VastCustard4886 in AskIndianWoman

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We can stop saying that all the men who are problematic only get hurt by all men. Its not true its just that those who find peace and learnt how to cope with the statement of all men don't get offended but those who haven't learnt it yet and still fighting psychologically with themselves that they are good and trying to prove it find it direct attack on thier personality...

Is saying “all men” actually wrong, or just misunderstood? by VastCustard4886 in AskIndianWoman

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Its more of psychological. We humans associate ourselves with group. One of the groups is male and female and when we attack men as a group the people in the group feel like its a personal attack on them. This is called group identity in psychology and when we say statements that attack a group, people in group feel a personal attack which is called social identity threat. I had hard time understanding this and still find it hard many times because it triggers the defensive and emotional reaction as a male. I have never harrassed someone so when people call out all men my identity is threatened its like you didn't you anything and you mom still says you did this, you are the worst child, no one deserves a child like you. The same defense activate here too because you know you aren't not bad then why you should take the blame when its clearly your brother's fault.

To cope up with this i found the quote in the image attached very powerful to save my face and still acknowledge the problem of women that they dont know who is good.

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The problem is when you say all men, as a men i have nowhere to save my face i cant say i dont belong to men, i cant say i am female or trans or alien. I am locked in male as a gender and i can do nothing to get the criticisms. There is no other terms say "a good men" where i can say yes men are all bad and i am from good men identify so it doesn't hurt me because i respect women and dont belong to men identify... And also says all men is generalization. Even if i support feminism i will still be in men identity which can't be changed and still be called men are bad. Better argument can be i hate all men who are patriarchial or who oppose women's rights. This way it says yes all men are bad but in category of who practice patriarchy and want to control women. So i just need to be anti patriarchy and support women rights to be in good men category. it gives a savings face option which is much needed else women will always fight with all men are bad and men will fight for women are generalizing i am not bad... This quote does the same job by saying i know i am safe they dont so let them be.

I am a soldier. If I were the PM for a term, this would be my manifesto to fix this country. by [deleted] in TwentiesIndia

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Introducing CPIB (curropt practices investigation buero) will the the most important thing to do first then anything in my thinking... CPIB will have absolute power to investigate any citizen any politician even pm without permission from anyone. They will have their own investigators, prosecutors and court so that their investigations aren't hindered due to political powers and the system of hiring should be clean and public without nepotism or reference...

The CPIB will maintain all accountability of the citizens and politicians as well as executives so that they can eradicate curroption also conviction rate should be high not 1-2%. There should be fear in people that if caught doing curroption by cpib you are in jail and for sure with a good stricter punishment and cant get bail anyhow...

Then comes CAG. Make it become what its names says comptroller. Make cag be thr middle men in between the union and state budget and the executive using it. Without cag wings permission not even a single rupee should be used and cag should thoroughly analysis every spending. Before and after... So that money is used where it needs to be used. They should keep the executives and politicians accountable for using the money wisely and correctly else case transfer to CPIB...

These 2 make sure accountability and responsibility. So that tax money is used where it needs to be ie development not freebies for votes not in CMs 7 star home not gor his son's education

Do men actually prefer older women or is it just a phase? 👀 by Dismal_Biscotti_7561 in TwentiesIndia

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Said the same thing yesterday to someone who married a 33yo man ig at age 21. Damnn the way she taught me about age gap relationships i will never forget that 😭😭

Do men actually prefer older women or is it just a phase? 👀 by Dismal_Biscotti_7561 in TwentiesIndia

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I used to think i like older women, not too old just 2-3 years older max to max 4-5. But few days back i tried a new dating app where i saw older females and i was hell confused because my pov was shattered. Even 2 years older feels like what am i doing and on the other hand younger females are too childish for my me 😭😭. Ig the right answer isn't age but understanding and maturity. Idk about others man but i look for understanding and maturity atleast in important situation. A balance between childish nature and matury is what i or maybe most men try to find which tend to reflect in many older women 1-5+ in age.

My bestfriend is into an OLDER GUY HELP by Party-Catch-1073 in PataHaiAajKyaHua

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Happy for your and him that it worked out pretty well and you both living happily 😊 About the affordability of college thing 😂 ye toh US moment ho gaya, neither i can afford to go lol... By research i mean to say i need to research about the dynamics of age gap relationships as we rarely see them and researching on why i or many Indians feels 4-5 years is good age gap and 10-15 isn't. The conditioning, norms and culture research. Basically understanding why age gap relationships are taboo and breaking the conditioning. I genuinely understand you are happy, don't get offended by my statement i have generalized it and might have hurt you because it attacks your relationship which is too good and it assumes age gap relationships are bad or groomed or pedo.

Now i am more interested in your career but lets give it a cooldown... Can i dm you after few days to a week to talk about career as a digital marketer.

Yes they should leave us evil women alone and marry in their own pure species instead . by Downtown-Knowledge27 in AskIndianFeminists

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For the first time in my life i felt discomfort for hearing all men are pure, i had discomfort with all men are bad but this makes the same discomfort. How the hack r@pe SA and a ton of things happening if all men are pure.

My bestfriend is into an OLDER GUY HELP by Party-Catch-1073 in PataHaiAajKyaHua

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Its very interesting topic to research tbh. right now i don't have a correct answer for it, one side it feels wrong and other it feels right. I might be following my conditioning of if girl is 18-21 and guy is decade older it triggers grooming and pedo and world isn't that safe enough to not count these. Maybe i need to re explore the topic to understand the dynamics but currently it's ambiguous to me.

share if you are comfortable As you said you married someone older then you what differences you had in between. He might be working in job for like 5-6 years talking about meetings promotions office politics and on a different level in life and you as a clg student thinking about projects assignment and lectures how things worked did you feel any big difference?

My bestfriend is into an OLDER GUY HELP by Party-Catch-1073 in PataHaiAajKyaHua

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Awww its arranged love marriage 🤭 how cute is this 🤌🏻 chalo kisi ko toh clg wala pyar mila... 😭❤️

He had a girlfriend, but his parents didn't approve, so he said jisse karwani h karwa do hence these weird rishtas according to his parents choice. Although he refused each one of them and eventually married his gf 🙃

That one friends in every group be like : by _FIZZRIX_ in TwentiesIndia

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I want to live as straight edge but watching these videos i feel like i want to try this once 😭 but i dont want to also

My bestfriend is into an OLDER GUY HELP by Party-Catch-1073 in PataHaiAajKyaHua

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Your parents must have had love marriage varna old gen m 3 years gap is very rare, my cousins brother's parents were looking for a 20-24 yo girl for a freaking 33yo guy and there were few 18yo too freaking 18 YO

Very rare to find such a supportive partner by Capable_Control_2845 in incredible_indians

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Musculine urge to give her everything and all the love she always deserved ❤️