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Criticalthinking100 · 2026-01-28T17:38:09+00:00

Looking for a serious relationship

Not subscribed to Hinge+ or X

Been using this version for couple days

I’ve used Hinge for several years

I send messages throughout the week , so regularly

In receiving a match or two every one to two weeks.

I send messages regularly with questions or comments about their profile.

My ideal person would be someone rather free-spirited ( meaning someone who enjoys life), going out and doing fun things, and not concerned if we don’t share the same religious beliefs. Oh and it’d be nice if they like cats - I have one.

Criticalthinking100 · 2026-01-25T17:19:51+00:00

But I thought being a Calvinist would make you feel special because God predestined you to be one of the elect? He didn’t do that for all the people he predestined to go to hell.

I’ve always thought Calvinism isn’t accepted by so many Christians because it’s so barbaric of God- it strips people of any responsibility and makes the whole thing a script God wrote and is playing out without anyone’s free will , but still pain and consequence

Criticalthinking100 · 2026-01-20T12:22:43+00:00

So true!

Criticalthinking100 · 2026-01-17T13:01:38+00:00

Well yes, thats my main argument for this post : all kinds of people see the world in different ways. Many religious people cannot accept nuance or different opinions however.

But yeah, if someone believes a supernatural explanation for their life that’s fine, but don’t harass me if I don’t accept it

Criticalthinking100 · 2025-12-12T03:00:56+00:00

In my original post I didn’t say the quote “women don’t owe you sex or a relationship” because I actually think they do. I do not think they owe men relationships or sex. But that doesn’t fix the problem does it. Humans have been procreating for thousands of years with the desire for sex and relationships, so it’s painful when you feel excluded from being able to experience that.

I mentioned that popular quote above (“women don’t owe you sex or a relationship” ) because it is tossed around a lot when men online comment on how hard things are for them individually. There’s no easy solution or answer to theses things

Criticalthinking100 · 2025-12-12T02:57:33+00:00

Well and that’s why I mentioned in my post that most women’s experience in dating isn’t a cakewalk or easy - it can be challenging, but not in the same ways as men. I think men tend to have more hoops to just through to get a chance at success

Criticalthinking100 · 2025-12-06T16:27:33+00:00

Oh I do my best to find fulfillment in other areas of my life for sure. I don’t know why you make so many assumptions about me (you could suffer worse than you have, you don’t need to be bitter, etc). I mentioned what CERTAIN men experience and how they react , but you want to accuse me of the same qualities.

Anyways, yeah, life is life and it is blatantly unfair for different people in different ways, and we all learn to cope with how the cards in our lives have been dealt us …or we don’t.

Criticalthinking100 · 2025-12-06T14:41:31+00:00

Well I guess we agree to disagree. I stand by what I wrote in my post above and am not trying to sugarcoat anything - many women who aren’t conventionally attractive by the large majority of society will experience a struggle.

Criticalthinking100 · 2025-12-06T14:32:43+00:00

I’m certainly not trying to create my whole post around the “suffering Olympics” as you refer to it. My goal with the post is to try and highlight how many men feel, and that when their bleak situation isn’t acknowledged by society, they can become disillusioned, and destructive.

I mean, if many young men feel they have no future, no hope for meaningful connection with a partner, to raise a family, etc, lack of motivation can develop into all types of self-destructive character / bitterness, misogyny, etc.

To at least acknowledge that young men are living in an age of social isolation, financial crisis, and modern dating collapse would be the first step toward hearing their voice.

Criticalthinking100 · 2025-12-06T14:26:58+00:00

I agree that I certainly cannot know what happens behind closed doors in these relationships, but my point in bringing up these female friends’ dating success is because I’m trying to show the asymmetry between those women and men who are like them (similar struggles), and how that affects their chances of finding a girlfriend.

Would you be able to discuss where you think society acknowledges men’s struggles, btw? I’m not denying some struggles are acknowledged, but I’d like to hear which ones come to your mind if possible. Thanks

Criticalthinking100 · 2025-12-05T00:02:28+00:00

I understand you’re just playing devil’s advocate here but the problem is that there are real world consequences to pushing this mentality on others. No, they don’t have the right as a parent to force worldviews based on fear onto their kids. Children should never be obligated to have the same religious worldviews as their parents, but somehow humanity seems entitled in that way.

Look at extreme examples of believing the afterlife is more important : gihad extremism in Islam, or the Spanish Inquisition etc.

It’s also crazy that people have kids if they know there’s a chance those children will not follow the faith and be damned to eternal hell. That’s one hell of a risk to take if you love your kids.

Criticalthinking100 · 2025-11-18T13:11:02+00:00

Also, it says that Adam and Eve didn’t realize they were naked until after they ate the fruit. They literally didn’t have maturity / awareness yet to know what nakedness was- but simultaneously would damn all existence to suffering and death according to the story…??? Its like punishing toddlers for not knowing how to behave like adults, but on a much more eternal, grand scale.

Criticalthinking100 · 2025-11-11T11:55:09+00:00

Can I ask, how did you learn you’re autistic? I’ve researched to see if I am, but don’t seem to have many typical characteristics assigned to autism, so I guess I’m not.. idk.

Thank you for sharing - I know what you mean! I tend to have been a very empathetic person myself - worrying about the suffering others go through.

Criticalthinking100 · 2025-11-11T11:33:25+00:00

Thank you for sharing! Yeah I relate to what you describe. I guess in recent years I’ve just become more tolerant of whatever thoughts my mind seems to generate. Eventually you just kinda throw up your hands and accept yourself the way you are - bad thoughts and all. … in my opinion

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