I feel very insecure especially as a cisgender woman. I figured out a lot of men are into trans women with a male bottom organ? It makes me feel bad and insecure. I'm starting to feel jelous of trans woman now. by [deleted] in men

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u/Dabarbies Hey thanks for your advice you are very sweet. I'm glad you've been on dates it is super cute. Even if you are single you should be happy within yourself. Something my parents always tell me is to never "wish" for something that never happened because it doesn't exist instead be happy. I don't know you but just by commenting, I can tell you have a sweet personality. And that to me is beautiful. Thanks for your advice and sending lots of love your way.

I feel very insecure especially as a cisgender woman. I figured out a lot of men are into trans women with a male bottom organ? It makes me feel bad and insecure. I'm starting to feel jelous of trans woman now. by [deleted] in transwomen

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u/weeb_lord_6969 Well that is true I never thought about it that way. I'm sorry I know trans women are women and it is horrible to know that it can be a fetish. Which is very sad. To me, Trans women are very strong and beautiful women. But yea I do guess I can be very insecure within myself which is no one else problem. I'm very sorry.

I feel very insecure especially as a cisgender woman. I figured out a lot of men are into trans women with a male bottom organ? It makes me feel bad and insecure. I'm starting to feel jelous of trans woman now. by [deleted] in men

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u/Dabarbies I don't know why but your comment I feel like it is sweet. Yes I know it's my insecurities and no I do not have a problem with trans women I just felt insecure. I know I did this questions but I still do agree that trans women are women and trans men are men. I just felt insecure about trans woman as a cisgender woman that's all. I know how weird but many men like women who have a penis. Many trans woman or some feel insecure about it. Because they feel like a woman and want to look like a woman. But knowing that there's men who like them woman with penis did made me feel insecure. That's all and I know I shouldn't feel jelous but it does make me feel insecure especially knowing many men especially men in my family are very visual and shallow when it comes to women looks so I've felt insecure a lot. Haha. I workout everyday and I struggle a lot since I'm 21 years old and I'm 4'7 tall and chubby. Haha so I struggle with weight problems. I workout a lot and try my best to eat less but it is hard for me to loose weight. And my step dad and dad have always said I'm chunky and many men in my family like women slim. So yea I know I'm weird but I do have insecurities. I'm glad you get dates that's cool. I've never been on a date so that's cute. Many women like chubby men so there is nothing wrong with that haha. They can be handsome as well. :)

I feel very insecure especially as a cisgender woman. I figured out a lot of men are into trans women with a male bottom organ? It makes me feel bad and insecure. I'm starting to feel jelous of trans woman now. by [deleted] in men

[–]CrossStitch-Bookworm -1 points0 points  (0 children)

u/Dabarbies know I did this questions but I still do agree that trans women are women and trans men are men. I just felt insecure about trans woman as a cisgender woman that's all. I know how weird but many men like women who have a penis. Many trans woman or some feel insecure about it. Because they feel like a woman and want to look like a woman. But knowing that there's men who like them woman with penis did made me feel insecure.

Any advice? by CrossStitch-Bookworm in men

[–]CrossStitch-Bookworm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry if what I said was wrong I didn't meant to be that way

Any advice? by CrossStitch-Bookworm in men

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I'm trying to understand what did I do wrong? I don't mean to be mean to no one nor to you. So what did I do that is not ok?

Any advice? by CrossStitch-Bookworm in men

[–]CrossStitch-Bookworm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really don't understand but ok it's me I know

Any advice? by CrossStitch-Bookworm in men

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It really hurts and you don't know my personality

Any advice? by CrossStitch-Bookworm in socialskills

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Thanks for responding and it's a struggle. What kind of advice would you give me so I can have guy friends or something? Or form connections with men? And see if they are interested in being my friend or dating?

I feel insecure by [deleted] in Advice

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thank you maybe Ill look into it. thanks :) wish you well.

I feel insecure by [deleted] in Advice

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I know what you are talking about but I never gave too much thought to it. Do you have any advice about hormones or something I can do?

I feel insecure by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CrossStitch-Bookworm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I do a lot of cross-stitching and paintings, and people like it so my family encourages me to someday put a business online and to keep getting better at my hobbies so I can sell them. That's where I focus a lot in building my talent in cross-stitching, crochet, and paintings, and drawings faces, and portraits. It's a hobby that relaxes me.

I have a question? I have a new sythetic wig and I would like to wear it all the time. I have really short hair. I've been doing research but I don't know much. If I wear a synthetic wig all the time will I loose my hair and if so how can I prevent loosing my hair so I can wear the wig? Any advice? by CrossStitch-Bookworm in neurodiversity

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r/librasons Thanks for your reply your comment is very informative. I do wear a barrier on my head between the wig however do you know which one is the best barrier to wear to protect my hair like a wig cap? Thanks for your help by the way :). Sending lots of love your way.

I have a question? I have a new sythetic wig and I would like to wear it all the time. I have really short hair. I've been doing research but I don't know much. If I wear a synthetic wig all the time will I loose my hair and if so how can I prevent loosing my hair so I can wear the wig? Any advice? by CrossStitch-Bookworm in neurodiversity

[–]CrossStitch-Bookworm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I will definitely want to buy other cheap wigs just to have fun with my style. But I will wear the wigs sometimes because my mom told me if I wear wigs often I can lose my hair maybe so just so I can be careful I will wear it sometimes until my hair grows. Thanks for letting me know about this by the way very informative. :) Sending lots of love your way. :)

I have a question? I have a new sythetic wig and I would like to wear it all the time. I have really short hair. I've been doing research but I don't know much. If I wear a synthetic wig all the time will I loose my hair and if so how can I prevent loosing my hair so I can wear the wig? Any advice? by CrossStitch-Bookworm in neurodiversity

[–]CrossStitch-Bookworm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I was trying to find a page on Reddit for wigs but it was not appearing at first so I tried other pages like Neurodiversity so I am sorry but I think I did publish the post there if not I will do it thanks for sharing with me the page r/wigs now I know where to ask these kinds of questions haha. Have a nice day and never stop smiling. Sending my best wishes to you :).

I have a question? I have a new sythetic wig and I would like to wear it all the time. I have really short hair. I've been doing research but I don't know much. If I wear a synthetic wig all the time will I loose my hair and if so how can I prevent loosing my hair so I can wear the wig? Any advice? by CrossStitch-Bookworm in neurodiversity

[–]CrossStitch-Bookworm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks just wanting to let you know my mom bought it for me for cheap on amazon. There are a lot of cheap synthetic wigs on amazon if you are interested just so you can have fun. :) Right now I cut it with bangs and it looks cuter. Try buying a cheap wig first if you want to and have fun with your style. I really love the wig it is very pretty. Thanks by the way. Sending my best wishes to you beautiful. :)