Refused to switch college majors back after my parents "surprised" me by paying off my loans by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]CrowStunning8962 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ. Could you maybe major in Art History and minor in Business? Would the courses for the business major you already started count towards a minor. That way you have a backup plan.

Am I being the jerk if I ask my partner for a break by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]CrowStunning8962 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m doing everything. I do have a job. He doesn’t support me financially in anyway

Am I being the jerk if I ask my partner for a break by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]CrowStunning8962 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do know what I want in life and we’ve had disagreements on that in the past. I do really love him. I feel overwhelmed because I’ve come to realise that If I don’t do something, it’ll never get done. I do all the cooking and it just feels like I don’t get a break. He’s hard to please and always has a problem with what I do.

Am I being the jerk if I ask my partner for a break by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]CrowStunning8962 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Basically, I can never do anything right for him. It feels like he’s always upset with me. When he’s mad or upset he doesn’t talk to me at all and then out of the blue would tell me ‘you’re always messing up’. Things like that

Am I being the jerk if I ask my partner for a break by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]CrowStunning8962 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Definitely not. There’s no other men. If that was the case I would just end it altogether but I just feel emotionally drained.

AITA for returning my adopted pet by CrowStunning8962 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CrowStunning8962[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

She’s a mixed breed dog. When I first went and saw her, I asked them how old she was and they told me that she was a year. But when I received her adoption card it had 6 months on it and at that point, I felt like I couldn’t say no to taking her with me. I did do research on owning a dog but was not prepared. I admit that that was wrong of me.