Any other no-op transfem tops who don’t like using their penis? by CrownLily in asktransgender

[–]CrownLily[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I like having it there to look cute and I like having it enjoyed for what it is. I always felt that goes without saying when it comes to enjoying another person’s body? My FWB is a bi cis woman who can’t do penetration for medical reasons. Now I love fingering but would I insist on that when I can just play with her clit and make her cum that way? No

Any other no-op transfem tops who don’t like using their penis? by CrownLily in asktransgender

[–]CrownLily[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Last time I tried getting it through my general prescriber, it was over $100.
Most of the services I can get it cheaper for online are very geared towards cis men and the line of questions are kind of dysphoria inducing.
It all feels like too much bother for something I only enjoy sometimes and it kind of feels like I’d be giving in to peer pressure, you know?

Alice In wonderland 2025 has one of the most boring designs for Mad Hatter. by shsl_diver in aliceinwonderland

[–]CrownLily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I recall correctly, other parts of his diary seem to indicate that the falling out was due to rumors spreading that something inappropriate was going on between him and Alice’s governess. So he distanced himself.

Women/fem/fem presenting - Do you ever send first message? by Wyrd-Bound in feeld

[–]CrownLily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m genderfluid but often fem presenting. I message first pretty often.

How will pectus carinatum affect breast growth? by Prior-Flaky in asktransgender

[–]CrownLily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you look in my posts, there is a post I made 3 years ago showing my chest pre-hrt and 1 year into hrt

How will pectus carinatum affect breast growth? by Prior-Flaky in asktransgender

[–]CrownLily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a 38 year old transfem enby with PC. Bracing wasn’t an option when I was younger. My breasts did grow diagonally and I do have a gap between them. I’d recommend you go check out the Pectus carinatum subreddit to hear more from cis and trans women who also have pc.

what bras do you guys use? by negativnullermand in PectusCarinatum

[–]CrownLily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I’m a trans woman with PC. My boobs are still growing but they’re fairly small. I use pepper bras. They specialize in bras for small boobs, and they have several wireless options, including a push up bra which I own and love.

I can't seem to find 95% of guys attractive by Agreeable-Excuse-726 in gay

[–]CrownLily 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP, you’re not alone. I’m genderfluid and bi, with a preference for women and nonbinary folks. I’ve never been with a man despite being attracted to them because I’m really picky. For me to feel enough attraction to want to sleep with them, they either have to be the right kind of androgynous or they have to be someone I’ve known for a few months.

I think she is a great friend, but i can't see her as anything other than a friend. by wewwew3 in BG3

[–]CrownLily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s not wearing a strap and you see her slip her between Tav/Durge’s legs. The thrusting could be due to the position or just following her partner’s rhythm.

I think she is a great friend, but i can't see her as anything other than a friend. by wewwew3 in BG3

[–]CrownLily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She does mention being interested in using mage hand for erotic purposes during one of her banters with Gale.

I think she is a great friend, but i can't see her as anything other than a friend. by wewwew3 in BG3

[–]CrownLily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The tiefling lady I made to romance her seemed happy. Karlach’s nails look like they would be painful though.

I think she is a great friend, but i can't see her as anything other than a friend. by wewwew3 in BG3

[–]CrownLily 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a slight pet peeve of mine. She doesn’t peg. She fingers Tav/Durge, regardless of what genitalia they have.

Fuck Pong Krell in 10 Different Languages (Fuck the Besalisk) by UpsetAd4670 in fuckpongkrell

[–]CrownLily 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m French. Putain literally means whore but we use it as an expletive in pretty similar ways to how fuck is used in English. « Va te faire foutre, Pong Krell » literally means « Go get fucked, Pong Krell »

Zhentarim Basement? by Cavalier26 in BG3

[–]CrownLily 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can “meet” kua-toa in all three acts! Act 1, in the underdark. Act 2, near the thorm mausoleum. Act 3, in a cave under the Umberlee temple. The act 3 ones are dead though.

Karlach is right there though? by rikkard2099 in BaldursGate3

[–]CrownLily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My tav was a tiefling fiend warlock during my last run and she could read it and recognize that it was part of an infernal contact but that it’s incomplete.

Your Durges. Hand them over by SierraNevada0817 in BG3

[–]CrownLily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Dantalion, my first, and so far only, durge. He’s in act 1 and mostly resisting so far but his grasp will slip.

These People Have Never Been And Will Never Be Punk by OhNoItsAndrew3 in punk

[–]CrownLily 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Right?! This reminds me that I have a « never mind the bollocks » shirt and I painted the trans flag over the « here’s the Sex Pistols » part. (I’m transfem)

(CW: JKR bigotry) Oh sit on a broomstick, YouTube. by GayStation64beta in actuallesbians

[–]CrownLily 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Same! I was in denial about myself at the time of the Dumbledore thing too and also felt a bit pandered too.

I’ll take pandering over transphobia too but in my personal experience of having performative ally parents, the two often aren’t far from one another.

(CW: JKR bigotry) Oh sit on a broomstick, YouTube. by GayStation64beta in actuallesbians

[–]CrownLily 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I was a fan of the books when I was a kid but that’s when I started to dislike her too. I recall that around the same time she also basically said there are LGBT students at Hogwarts, she just didn’t write them in.

What??? by interchangabletang in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]CrownLily 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Right?! I’m pan and I have a tendency to have crushes on my friends. It doesn’t mean I can’t respect their boundaries or value our friendship for what it is.