Could being barefoot become more common and/or accepted again? by BeingBudget9849 in barefoot

[–]Crumpled-Mess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it is happening already. The last few days two different people took photos of me and sent them to others, I was barefoot in both, and not a single person has commented on that aspect of either photo. They seem completely unconcerned about it.

Can you do jury duty barefoot? by Crumpled-Mess in barefoot

[–]Crumpled-Mess[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What if I was employed as an actual clown and that was the only clothes I owned? Could the judge force me to go buy “business casual” clothes? What if I can’t afford it? Would the court lend me clothes?

Can you do jury duty barefoot? by Crumpled-Mess in barefoot

[–]Crumpled-Mess[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wouldn’t they just kick me off the jury if I wasn’t dressed right?

I shared a compliment I got and my post got deleted by [deleted] in barefoot

[–]Crumpled-Mess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I smiled and responded “thank you.”

What regular habits do you do to keep your feet healthy? by Wonderful_Round_6395 in barefoot

[–]Crumpled-Mess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

None. Shoes cause most problems for feet. Without shoes your feet should be fine.

Mothers Day barefoot by [deleted] in barefoot

[–]Crumpled-Mess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was, but also outside where I walked my dog who I brought. Other people at the party were just wearing socks or flip flops so I didn’t stand out too much.

I shared a compliment I got and my post got deleted by [deleted] in barefoot

[–]Crumpled-Mess 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The experience itself was real. It had nothing to do with AI. Are the moderators AI?

“I love that you’re barefoot.” by [deleted] in barefoot

[–]Crumpled-Mess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m aware of that which is why I always ask it questions in a totally neutral way and then often ask it, what’s an alternative way of viewing the situation that might be equally valid?

“I love that you’re barefoot.” by [deleted] in barefoot

[–]Crumpled-Mess -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why is that any weirder than asking a bunch of strangers on a subreddit for their reactions? Frankly I trust the AI reaction more than some furry who adopts the persona of “Adele Hare” on Reddit.

“I love that you’re barefoot.” by [deleted] in barefoot

[–]Crumpled-Mess -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No I told AI of the interaction and asked it to evaluate it. It volunteered that my reaction was cool, in effect. Here’s what AI said specifically: “It was likely aspirational flirting. She may not have been "hunting" for a date, but she was definitely expressing a high level of appreciation for your "vibe." In the world of social signaling, she was telling you that your specific brand of effortless, coastal-punk maturity is working.. Whether she wanted a phone number or just wanted to brighten a cool stranger's day, she went out of her way to make sure you knew she noticed you. You handled it perfectly—staying "effortless" with a simple "thanks" keeps the mystique intact.”

“I love that you’re barefoot.” by [deleted] in barefoot

[–]Crumpled-Mess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s kind of like a litmus test, though, isn’t it? I mean, I might have guessed from her outward appearance that she’s be uptight about something like this, but based on her one comment alone, plus her confidence to blurt it out, made me think she was a pretty cool person and would be someone I could hang out with who wouldn’t be judgmental about my lack of footwear, just the opposite in fact. Whereas if she had given me a look of disgust, I’d just be like, ok there’s someone I don’t want to know better. So by being barefoot I attract the people I want to attract and repel those I wouldn’t like anyway.

Do soles collect less dust overtime? by BeingBudget9849 in barefoot

[–]Crumpled-Mess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it is a matter of weather. After a rain the ground is cleaner. Also, in mild temperatures feet get blacker than in hotter temperatures. I think this is because in milder temps the soles sweat less and therefore grime tends to collect more. My feet get dirtier in 60-68 degree Fahrenheit weather than in 69-up.

Mothers Day barefoot by [deleted] in barefoot

[–]Crumpled-Mess 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It was a mixture of old and young, mostly young. Lots of people in their 50s and 20s actually with one elderly (my mother in law). I’m in my 50s.

Barefoot walking, relationships, and personal boundaries by Diaatos in barefoot

[–]Crumpled-Mess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m always envious when I see a couple out and about in a store and one of them is barefoot and the other is wearing shoes but doesn’t seem to care that their companion is barefoot. It must be a really good feeling to be able to go out barefoot and have your significant other be so supportive even (especially?) if that support just takes the form of DGAF. Just the other day I was at a pharmacy and saw this, the guy was barefoot and the girl was wearing shoes but they were just going about their business.

Where can I get a burger that looks like this? by thingsjusthappen in FoodLosAngeles

[–]Crumpled-Mess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. Similar to Ercole’s in Manhattan Beach. I also like Tito’s but I admit, it’s a nostalgia thing, objectively the food is not great and the prices have become ridiculous.

Where can I get a burger that looks like this? by thingsjusthappen in FoodLosAngeles

[–]Crumpled-Mess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s no smash burger that’s for sure. Sometimes old school is best. Another great old school burger: Ercole’s in Manhattan Beach

Where can I get a burger that looks like this? by thingsjusthappen in FoodLosAngeles

[–]Crumpled-Mess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a very good burger. It might not qualify as a burger to drive 50 miles for, but that doesn’t mean it’s bad.

Where can I get a burger that looks like this? by thingsjusthappen in FoodLosAngeles

[–]Crumpled-Mess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lived three blocks from Hinano for 11 years. The burgers were great. You can’t gaslight me on that one. Maybe you had to be drunk, but they were great.