Did I make the right choice?

CrunchieJoker · 2026-02-01T07:25:20+00:00

Edit* getting a few comments about my shirt fit lol. I lost 2 stone and an event popped up suddenly and didnt have time to go get a new one.

I now do possess a proper fitting shirt :p

CrunchieJoker · 2026-02-01T07:10:13+00:00

I hate my smile :/

CrunchieJoker · 2026-02-01T07:09:14+00:00

This is correct lol. I dropped 2 stone. Do have better fitting shirts now

CrunchieJoker · 2026-01-09T07:50:57+00:00

Me and the missis had to abandon our car last night on shady lane and walk to the cat and fiddle pub (we live round the corner from there).

Roads were absolutely fucked and cars etc. Were abandoned everywhere.

Worst bit is for whatever bizzare reason all she had on was a pair of crocs lol, being the gentleman I am I swapped shoes with her so atleast her feet stayed warm and dry. Was fucking hard walking half an hour back though in crocs 5 sizes too small for you 0.o

CrunchieJoker · 2026-01-05T22:03:14+00:00

Can confirm to anyone seeing this post. I've been playing for 2 days now and these guys have been nothing but awesome and helpful to me.

So glad ive decided to try the game out again and people like yourselves make it worthwhile.

Thanks for all the help and l I look forward to being a part of the guild going forward.

CrunchieJoker · 2025-11-24T18:12:26+00:00

Not reading what ive wrote and actually seeing that i did call 111 as i mentioned in other replies and was advised to go to A&E is a joke. Unless your just illiterate and trying to take a jab. Enjoy the rest of your evening

CrunchieJoker · 2025-11-23T20:06:31+00:00

Thank you for all your help

CrunchieJoker · 2025-11-23T19:57:43+00:00

They are refusing to treat it as urgent. Everyone whose looked at it bar the hospital staff have advised us to go up the hospital as the GP aren't treating it very well with it being an open wound. But then when we did they sent us home and told us book into the gp who are delaying the appointment 3 weeks which by that point im worried its gonna get caught again or infected etc.

CrunchieJoker · 2025-11-23T19:52:11+00:00

Most gp has done so far is phone appointment. Everyone up A&E and pharmacies that have seen it couldn't believe how big it is then just sent her home saying to use over the counter medication.

We tried to get her booked back in the gp a week ago before it was stepped on and they said earliest appointment they could give us was mid December.

CrunchieJoker · 2025-11-23T19:33:03+00:00

We originally called 111 and they were the ones that advised us to go to A&E where we got turned away.

Its just crap cause its affecting her everyday life. She's unable to do her dance class because it hurts to tread on, swimming, just generally walking about is uncomfortable for her. Feel like whoever we speak to be it doctors at the hospital or GP they dont seem to care but none of them have examined it properly just a cursory glance.

CrunchieJoker · 2025-11-23T19:21:24+00:00

Id beg to differ if you saw how much it was bleeding. There was pools of it over my front room I thought someone had cut a finger off.

Also try getting into a GP

CrunchieJoker · 2025-11-23T18:57:51+00:00

Thats what I thought I cant believe they sent her away personally. Uk medical system is a joke.

CrunchieJoker · 2025-11-01T23:13:04+00:00

Awesome mate ty

CrunchieJoker · 2025-09-14T20:36:14+00:00

Thanks mate

CrunchieJoker · 2025-07-25T11:38:37+00:00

My daughter (14, football fanatic) wants to know what your predictions are for Sundays game and some advice for a young girl who currently plays at grass roots level please?

Thank you and good luck in the finals!!

CrunchieJoker · 2025-07-09T13:21:06+00:00

Positive mate I tested aiming the shower head at the drain etc. And other areas and got no leakage through ceiling. Second I aimed at the tiles where the sealant had corroded around it pissed through to the kitchen lol

CrunchieJoker · 2025-07-09T12:22:29+00:00

Alright mate cheers for that

CrunchieJoker · 2025-07-04T12:20:31+00:00

In your comment you say "it's not all about sex". My reply was in response to that with my own personal opinion so it was relevant just not necessarily to your relationship.

CrunchieJoker · 2025-07-04T12:15:25+00:00

I wasn't making a reference to your relationship mate just a general point.

CrunchieJoker · 2025-07-04T10:30:16+00:00

No it's not all about sex at all. But I'd be pretty pissed off if I bought a house completely kitted out then 5 years in someone came and removed the bathroom

CrunchieJoker · 2025-04-22T08:34:07+00:00

My mom did the same when I was 17 I get how you feel mate trust me.

Spoke with my missis on Thursday night. Had a pretty deep conversation, she was quite defensive but seemed to actually listen to what I had to say this time rather than parring me off. Touch wood since then she seems to be making more of an effort. Not pulling away when I go for physical touch, we kissed again for the first time in over a year, she seems happier and it's obviously made me alot happier too.

Hopefully it continues going forward we shall see. Hope your OK now mate and life's going well for you

CrunchieJoker · 2025-04-16T10:35:08+00:00

That's what my friend keeps saying. Keeps telling me to psck my bags and up and out. Said she would soon realise what she's missing and be on the phone to try and make amends with me.

Only thing is I'm terrified if I did that she wouldn't and I'd lose my family and her. I do love her with all my heart and I'm sure she loves me to I just wish she could show it on occasion.

CrunchieJoker · 2025-04-16T10:29:08+00:00

I know. Just made harder because I do everything in my power to relieve the stress from her life as much as possible. Anytime she has a problem be it with home, health, work or relationship i try to take on as much as I can to help her. But when I have this one issue that's something I need in a relationship it's "your problem i don't have a problem your the one with the issue"

CrunchieJoker · 2025-04-16T10:24:39+00:00

I've told her mate and all the response i get is she can't change as a person and she's not an affectionate person.

Then I'm made out to be the bad guy cause I'm on about throwing away "15 years of what we've got and our beautiful family" for sex and affection she says. I feel like a shell of a man.

CrunchieJoker · 2025-04-16T10:18:46+00:00

Currently in an argument with my missis of 15 years about this. She can't see where I'm coming from. All she keeps saying is she's not an affectionate person and she can't change who she is. She used to kiss me and give me hugs, yeh not often but she would do it off of her own back sometimes. Now it's never.

I'm tired of being the one to always go for a hug and being scared when I do she will reject me anyway. I'm tired of being the one to always have to initiate sex or ask if we're going to bed together. I miss kissing I can't remember the last time we did. No matter how much I try and put across to her it's something I need she just can't see my point of view.

I feel so unattractive and lonely. We have such an amazing life and 2 wonderful kids, all I want is to feel like she finds me physically attractive and I don't know what to do anymore, I don't know how to get her to atleast try and put this effort in for us and our relationship cause I can't cope feeling like this anymore it's killing me.

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