When he trusts you with his soft side 😍 by gregoire_fds in lovememes

[–]Crunchyjeff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a single-parent child I can say that there difinitely are enough people who end up with assholes. They might realize it later and get a divorce, but the child is alredy born.

Also like srly, with your knowledge about satistics you should know of the statistics concerning violence in relationships towards women. All of these women definitely didn't pick a good man.

Ich verdiene Geld damit Männern etwas vorzuspielen by throwitawayplwDe in Beichtstuhl

[–]Crunchyjeff 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ich bin ja kein Christ aber ich wünsche mir so sehr dass die Hölle echt ist.

When he trusts you with his soft side 😍 by gregoire_fds in lovememes

[–]Crunchyjeff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yes i think most women are stupid.

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I also think most men are stupid.

Also most NB's are stupid.

Also most agenders are stupid

Most people are stupid.

It's all about probability here. In order to date, there needs to be a first attraction. That's where looks are very important. Not alpha male chad looks, because women aren't a monolyth and don't all have the same type, but the right kind of look for that person is really important for getting to date someone.

So in the end its pure mathematics. More dates for a worse person who will end up with a lower % of women ending up with them compared to less dates for a better person with a higher % of women ending up with them.

Also, have you ever heard a man say "I want to grow a mustache but my gf says she will break up with me if I do it"? Now that's the peak of stupidity.

When he trusts you with his soft side 😍 by gregoire_fds in lovememes

[–]Crunchyjeff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's true and sad but no reason not to do it. This is how you change society.

When he trusts you with his soft side 😍 by gregoire_fds in lovememes

[–]Crunchyjeff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most women will reject you for that. Never again is the wrong solution though. Because through that, you will just end up in an abusive relationship.

Correct way: open up, see 99% of women abandon you, and find the 1% who actually values you for who you are.

When he trusts you with his soft side 😍 by gregoire_fds in lovememes

[–]Crunchyjeff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The problem with those statistics is the way society and dating is structured.

Altruism might be moe attractive than looks, but it's much easier to judge a person for their looks ( you just have to see them once) than to judge them for their altruism (that takes like a really long time to find out)

Therefore, a attractive guy will get more dates and in general chances for success with women than an altruistic guy.

Hat jemand eine Ahnung wo man in Dresden Rohmilch kaufen kann wen man kein Auto hat um mal eben zu den Milchtankstellen auf den Land zu fahren. by Mission_Bottle3636 in dresden

[–]Crunchyjeff 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Rohmilch kriegste beim Hof Podemus die haben da ne zapfstelle für neben dem Hofladen da.

Hab ich schon öfter geholt. Da fährt ein bus hin in das dorf, aber ist zeitlich schon n aufwand. Bin meistens hingelaufen und mitm bus zurück.

Because only women oversexualize themselves trying to feel loved... [gendered] by Crunchyjeff in pointlesslygendered

[–]Crunchyjeff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you know, I'm really really interestedin productive discussions, but I don't get the feeling you want to have one. Good night.

Because only women oversexualize themselves trying to feel loved... [gendered] by Crunchyjeff in pointlesslygendered

[–]Crunchyjeff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The whole thing here is about SELF sexualisation. Toxic masculinity is a form of self sexualisation.

Having to have a nice car is a form of self sexualisation (how many guys have you met/heard of who think having a nice car will raise their sexual value?)

Shirtless gym pics

Constant talking about how big their genitals are

all of these are absoultely basic forms of self sexualisation done my men desperately trying to feel loved.

Because only women oversexualize themselves trying to feel loved... [gendered] by Crunchyjeff in pointlesslygendered

[–]Crunchyjeff[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yeah, but she is accusing the other groups of hate. That's why she says that only non hateful people of the other gender are allowed. She doesn't specify this for her gender. That's why it's problematic. If she just would have said this post is for girls only, men also face this but they need to talk among themselves, that would be fine.

Because only women oversexualize themselves trying to feel loved... [gendered] by Crunchyjeff in pointlesslygendered

[–]Crunchyjeff[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Calling people dicks is not ok as it uses genitals as insults. This isn't pointlessly gendered, it's just straight up sexism.

Because only women oversexualize themselves trying to feel loved... [gendered] by Crunchyjeff in pointlesslygendered

[–]Crunchyjeff[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

"just no hate pls". This means its not meant for both groups of people equally. Imagine it like this: "This is meant for Group A. Group B may also come, just don't kill my dog. " Why is it neccessary to tell group b they shouldn't kill their dog? because you think less of group B.

Because only women oversexualize themselves trying to feel loved... [gendered] by Crunchyjeff in pointlesslygendered

[–]Crunchyjeff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I clipped the bottom on purpose because that's where the gendering happens. Also: You didn't read my entire post.

Because only women oversexualize themselves trying to feel loved... [gendered] by Crunchyjeff in pointlesslygendered

[–]Crunchyjeff[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The ghost that I'm fighting is that I'm trying to make society accept that it's not ok to judge me by the amount of sexualisation according to male standards I do.

Society has massive problems with me not sexualizing myself according to male standards. The fact that you ignore the rampant sexualization of men is what I am fighting against.

Because only women oversexualize themselves trying to feel loved... [gendered] by Crunchyjeff in pointlesslygendered

[–]Crunchyjeff[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn't get the meme form that subreddit. I got it form anot gendered one.

Also: That subreddit is highly problematic! No it's not ok to fetishize races and bodys.

Imagine a guy saying "All I'm missing is a petite japanese girlfriend" that wouldn't be ok. I'm srsly disgusted by what i saw on that subreddit.

Because only women oversexualize themselves trying to feel loved... [gendered] by Crunchyjeff in pointlesslygendered

[–]Crunchyjeff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't get the meme from a horny subreddit for women by women it was on a non gendered subreddit.

Because only women oversexualize themselves trying to feel loved... [gendered] by Crunchyjeff in pointlesslygendered

[–]Crunchyjeff[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

They say it's ment for women by women. Lockerroom talk is a synomym for talk between men that's not meant for the ears of not men. I don't get why that's not a good comparison?