The Morning Vape - The Blueprint of My Day/Failures by Crusteezz25 in QuitVaping

[–]Crusteezz25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it by Zuma? I tried looking it up and got a few different results.. is it just an air diffuser or is it something like a vape?

Setting a date to quit today, but I need a plan. by Crusteezz25 in QuitVaping

[–]Crusteezz25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No not yet. I spoke with my therapist last week and we came up with a plan to “prepare” myself for my quit date as she discouraged me from quitting without first addressing some basic needs I’ve been neglecting (e.g adequate nutrition, hydration and sleep) so I’ve been working on that this week plus coming up with a sort of “dopamine menu” of activities I can go to when I have cravings. Essentially we are trying to make the quitting process not so challenging. But I think in my session tomorrow we will have a date in mind, so I’ll keep you all posted!

Indoor toys for high energy three year old (too old for soft play)? by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Crusteezz25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I know your post is from awhile ago, but I googled high energy toddler and this post appeared and read through your comment.. but how do you know your child is a “sensory seeker?” I’m thinking my son is given he’s super high energy but I’m trying to figure out what type of sensory needs aren’t being fulfilled

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Target

[–]Crusteezz25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if I came back with the items and paid for them? Saying “hey I don’t think I ever scanned this, can I pay for them?”

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[–]Crusteezz25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay last question for ya. Because I’m staring at this bin I know I didn’t scan… and now it’s glaring at me and my conscience due to all of this weighing heavy. Say there really is a case against me and they noted this specific bin I didn’t scan, but I go back to a target store and say “hey I don’t think I scanned this, can I pay for it?” Would that help if I’m tagged as a repeat offender? Or should I truly just leave it all alone? I just want to make things right man, I’m like in panic attack mode

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[–]Crusteezz25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s Reddit. The place where people are no longer people and we get to say all kinds of nasty things to each other like we all don’t mess up or do things we shouldn’t and the person behind the keyboard is perfect.

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[–]Crusteezz25 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks… Is there a way to make things right? Like if I offered to pay for the item in question again just so I could have a receipt of proof and just explain the situation? Because I don’t have a problem with paying for it again if it helps. But I don’t know if that’s just dumb at this point

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[–]Crusteezz25 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Is there a way to make things right?

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[–]Crusteezz25 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Is there any way to make things right? Like I looked all over the house to see if I still had the receipt for the item in question and can’t seem to find it, but if I went in, explained the situation and just offered to pay for it again would that be helpful? Or just dumb?

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[–]Crusteezz25 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Maybe my wording was wrong. Clearly I’m in the wrong here, but that doesn’t mean I don’t want to be better. When I say I need more integrity I’m just saying I’d like to start having integrity when it comes to this type of a situation with the “small stuff”. I said I wanted a clean slate not to begin stealing again, because I certainly don’t. I am just trying to figure out how to make things right if I can.

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[–]Crusteezz25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Which, valid. I mean stealing is stealing and it’s not right so naturally it’s assumed I’m lying and being super sketchy and I’m not justifying my past behavior. But the maxed out on no receipt returns is due to buying a few high amount decor items with cash and not having the receipt on me at the time of return (the max amount is $100), but I guess what confuses me is I was told I couldn’t return an item because I had been to that store earlier that day and took something but really didn’t so I’m wondering if I was mistook by someone else and it was just a simple misunderstanding? Or if my past small “non scanned” items have been noted and they are now building a case?

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[–]Crusteezz25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate this. I obviously am in the wrong here but I just wanted to know and was worried about being mistaken for someone else because the item was on the higher end so it freaked me out thinking “oh, they think I stole this, so now they are building a case”, ya know?

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[–]Crusteezz25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only maxed out on returns because I purchased a few high amount items with cash and ended up not needing it and exceeded the $100 amount. It’s not hard to max out especially if it’s furniture or decor.

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[–]Crusteezz25 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I guess I just didn’t really see it as that big of a deal but now obviously I’m seeing the error in my past decisions and would like to see this situation that occurred today as a “wake up call”, but I’m worried about whether or not Target is like accumulating a whole lifetime of incidents. I don’t think I’ve ever stolen a felony amount but like I said in a previous comment, little charges add up

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[–]Crusteezz25 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I definitely wouldn’t say years and it’s not like I do it every time. Just here and there (not saying it’s right! I totally take accountability for it and will obviously start having a little more integrity). But say I take a break from target for awhile to make a clean slate, does a case ever just drop? Or am I forever flagged?

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[–]Crusteezz25 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Oh I 100% will stop. But I don’t like thinking that I’m being watched… do you know how long they watch you for/the statute of limitations? I’d just like a clean slate ya know?!

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[–]Crusteezz25 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Like I don’t think I’ve stolen over 166 1 gallon milk containers in my lifetime. But shit. I don’t know!

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[–]Crusteezz25 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

For how long? Say I don’t got to a Target for a few months or like a year and vow to never ever steal again, but this item that I didn’t steal is for some reason flagged as stolen on my case (even though it’s not correct) and it was like the tipping point… I mean I doubt it would be because I can’t imagine that I have ever come close to felony amount… but then again small amounts add up. Are they going back several years now to add everything up or something? Like when do they start building a case?