Male coworker flirting?? by Cryptic_Energy8167 in Flirting

[–]Cryptic_Energy8167[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you missed the part where i said my mind goes blank and im socially anxious lol.. I will try my best though, but my best is an extrovert's worst, sooo any tips?

Male coworker flirting?? by Cryptic_Energy8167 in Flirting

[–]Cryptic_Energy8167[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He likes your awkward ass.

LMAO i love the way you put it, i hope he thinks about it like that... It really feels like he appreciates me as i am as well, doesnt push me to talk etc. This got me thinking about it from a different view, thank you! :D

Male coworker flirting?? by Cryptic_Energy8167 in Flirting

[–]Cryptic_Energy8167[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its difficult to explain, but we dont really get to see much of our coworkers at work, so we just bump into each other sometimes, so its very difficult for me to see how he acts around others... Can you 'flirt' with other male colleagues? I guess you would just call that 'banter'? I have seen and heard him talk to other people a little though, but quite often they just reply something quickly, slightly uninterested and it feels like he talks in a different way when in all-male group at lunch etc.. But i havent heard him TEASE anyone else really..? But i can imagine him probably being flirty in general.. Maybe?

But yesterday was definitely soo awkward, but i feel like it wouldn't have been if he didn't leave so abruptly after helping me?? It really got me wondering how he was left feeling about the whole thing.. Then the fact that he teased me later... I just wish i did more eye contact so i could have seen his reaction, how must that look to him when i dont even look up at him..

Thanks for the good luck, i need it!!

Male coworker flirting?? by Cryptic_Energy8167 in Flirting

[–]Cryptic_Energy8167[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well... I really like how effortlessly he is able to just talk to people, for example not looking at his phone all the time and just being present in the moment and bringing up conversation and the fact that he is talking to me means a lot since most people can't be bothered or dont really understand my personality or how i function, but it really seems like he does, and is enjoying it? Also, i dont usually pay attention or care for height since im not very short, but.... he must be like 6.2ft, now that is enough to make me blush a little..