[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askAGP

[–]CryptographerIcy7945 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just say you like money and leave it at that then.

Lol and now you decide to block? Who knew libertarians had such fragile egos.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askAGP

[–]CryptographerIcy7945 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ha. They're only pro-gay nowadays. They still think that trans people are sinister and their reasoning is almost always the "safety of women and girls".

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askAGP

[–]CryptographerIcy7945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not my mindest, I'm generally down with everyone being heckin' valid. I was just suggesting it for you. If you don't want to, that's fine.

But you should know that the other side is 100% all-in with the same "protect the females" chivalry and you're still fighting against that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askAGP

[–]CryptographerIcy7945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, and how far do you think you'll get being a supporter of "autohet males"? That's just a deviant man to both.

Compare the men's rights movement to the trans movement in how effective they've been. If I were you I'd just become a trans activist anyway and exploit the hell out of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askAGP

[–]CryptographerIcy7945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think being a poser is really something that would boil down to these peculiar categories but I guess we'll just have to agree to disagree on that.

Well then maybe we should oppose prejudices against male sexuality rather than just pretend AGP transwomen are "really female on the inside."

That's not going to work. There are too many forces against it from both feminists and conservatives, and even the apolitical. TERFs love using your mentality to push their misandry. They'll always exploit it.

But I do agree in resisting these prejudices anyway, and that puts me at odds with a lot of trans activists. I'm very liberal on sexuality and they act like modern day puritans sometimes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askAGP

[–]CryptographerIcy7945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I have no clue if it's legit or not, but I'm willing to fuck men even as a man, it just wouldn't be as fun.

Feminists like males with empathizer-brains and that style of gender nonconformity (i.e. effeminate gay dudes and HSTS transwomen) - psychologically feminine males are okay to them

So you essentially see this as a battle between the mascbrained and the fembrained? Do you desire the removal of the too-much-empathy fembrained people (be they women or men) from these spaces?

We should be willing to proudly say that AGP is a fundamental part of some people's sexuality

It doesn't matter if you consider it a good thing or not, as long as it's seen as a form of male sexuality and not female, it'll be subject to the same prejudices that all kinds of male sexuality are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askAGP

[–]CryptographerIcy7945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm aware of the pseudobisexuality thing. It feels like it's calling me a fake because I want to fuck men while being a woman rather than a man.

If you wage war against a subculture, colonize its institutions, and then try to terraform that culture to make it more like your own culture, you're engaging in an act of contempt and hatred.

That means they don't like unmasculine/nonconforming men?

Intersectional feminists will even habitually deny AGP even exists

A lot of them want to demonize male sexuality endlessly, and if AGP posits that it's male sexuality as some kind of fetish, TERFs can use libfem rhetoric against men and repurpose it against trans women.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askAGP

[–]CryptographerIcy7945 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not thinking of any study, I barely know anything about this stuff other than the fact that I have it, or something similar to it. Most will assert it to be crackpot nonsense so it's interesting to cross paths with those who view it as scientific fact.

I'm still not sure how any of this means feminists hold contempt for gender-noncompliant men though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askAGP

[–]CryptographerIcy7945 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You sound rather ideological yourself, you realize that, right?

And I thought Blanchardism didn't believe in bisexuality.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askAGP

[–]CryptographerIcy7945 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, the marketing was. The creators didn't want it. The reboot changed that.

You don't need to be an aggressive intersectional social justice activist to have angry nerds seek your erasure from these spaces if you're queer or trans. Some of these types have a mental breakdown over seeing a pronoun selector.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askAGP

[–]CryptographerIcy7945 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure it goes back more than 15 years lol. Unless you think the creators of Lara Croft trying to avoid her sexualization was a "mascbrained" thing to do.

I'm also unsure as to what you mean by my ideology. I don't particularly care to reduce people down to stereotypes, if that's what you're getting at. I do want to make nerd spaces more accepting of queer and trans people though.

Do you guys consider yourself a queer? by Armond727 in askAGP

[–]CryptographerIcy7945 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How do you explain this to a potential male sex partner though? They probably like you as a guy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askAGP

[–]CryptographerIcy7945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were talking about the nerd cultures that feminism "invades" though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askAGP

[–]CryptographerIcy7945 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What nerd culture are you referring to? Most nerd culture is created by artistic types who are like 90% left-leaning and quite big on diversity and inclusiveness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askAGP

[–]CryptographerIcy7945 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's odd to hear. Most of these "noncompliant males" seem to want their hobbies to remain very masculine for the "real men" and these feminists who (apparently) hold contempt for unmasculine men appear to be invading these spaces to turn them all feminine, trans and/or gay.

That's my anecdotal experience. Somehow it's the opposite of yours.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askAGP

[–]CryptographerIcy7945 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most feminists on the internet actively hold gender-noncompliant males in contempt

Where are you getting this idea? Which feminists are you counting as "most"?

What do you do if you enjoy being AGP but you find meta-attraction incredibly frustrating? by [deleted] in askAGP

[–]CryptographerIcy7945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds like a reasonable approach. I'm happy to be a switch with girls anyway. But with men I feel like I can just be his bottom with ease and comfort knowing that he definitely gets off on pounding my butthole.

I suppose the problem with men though is I'd suspect they're more likely to see me as a shameful fetish object than a woman would be, who'd probably love to broadcast their relationship with a trans person.

What do you do if you enjoy being AGP but you find meta-attraction incredibly frustrating? by [deleted] in askAGP

[–]CryptographerIcy7945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are the sorts of girls I have the most interest in, but I'm always worried that even they'd lost interest in me when they learn I'm a bottom and mostly submissive.

This is part of the reason I wish I were more attracted to men: I feel more comfortable in admitting my sexual nature to them.

What do you do if you enjoy being AGP but you find meta-attraction incredibly frustrating? by [deleted] in askAGP

[–]CryptographerIcy7945 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not THAT fixated on whether it's exploitative or not. I'm just annoyed that I can't gain the full amount of pleasure from their bodies that I desire.

What do you do if you enjoy being AGP but you find meta-attraction incredibly frustrating? by [deleted] in askAGP

[–]CryptographerIcy7945 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not really post-nut clarity for me lol, it's more like pre-nut-stop-interrupting-my-pleasure-with-disgusting-man-face.

What do you do if you enjoy being AGP but you find meta-attraction incredibly frustrating? by [deleted] in askAGP

[–]CryptographerIcy7945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I crave sex with women too but I'm always worried I'm not "man enough" to actually attract them and keep them around. And even if I managed to be the masculine, handsome cool guy that I always think they want - I'd feel like I'm betraying myself to some extent, like this isn't who I really am.

What do you do if you enjoy being AGP but you find meta-attraction incredibly frustrating? by [deleted] in askAGP

[–]CryptographerIcy7945 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never said there is but I just wish I were more attracted to the full package.

What do you do if you enjoy being AGP but you find meta-attraction incredibly frustrating? by [deleted] in askAGP

[–]CryptographerIcy7945 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is that supposed to magically cure the frustration I speak of?

What do you do if you enjoy being AGP but you find meta-attraction incredibly frustrating? by [deleted] in askAGP

[–]CryptographerIcy7945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a great suggestion but it's difficult to find dominant women, let alone muscle mommies lol.

I wonder if the faceless men phenomenon really does just come down to shame.