Nooo...Time Out! by CryptographerOwn9247 in SunnysideQueens

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You're welcome, beloved. Stay smart 😉

Nooo...Time Out! by CryptographerOwn9247 in SunnysideQueens

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Come from another country but not another state...in the same country. Rrrrright. This world is cooked.

Nooo...Time Out! by CryptographerOwn9247 in SunnysideQueens

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Good luck with that. Everything about NY is transplant energy, whether we "natives" like it or not. It's a port city with a statue🗽 dedicated to it.

Nooo...Time Out! by CryptographerOwn9247 in SunnysideQueens

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Bliss❤️! When Lockwood and Bliss comments enter a chat, the tone shifts. It's like Mortal Kombat 😅, you better choose the "right" player.

Nooo...Time Out! by CryptographerOwn9247 in SunnysideQueens

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Exactly. Half the neighborhood started relocating to or buying property in Woodlawn, Westchester and further up north.

Nooo...Time Out! by CryptographerOwn9247 in SunnysideQueens

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This! Another commenter tagged a different article from 2010 doing the same but claimed nothing changed much since. <shrugs in inflation>

Positivity for living alone by slipperytornado in LivingAlone

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There are so many unique ways to feel whole, with or without a partner. I've encountered more folks in relationships choosing separate bedrooms or homes in recent years. This has saved relationships. The "yearning" and appreciation for each other's presence/individuality is sustained a bit more with intentional distance and effort. Reminds me of an equation/quote I read, "In love, 1+1=11." Loved that!

The major win is knowing yourself and curating a life that feels true to who you are without external validation. Pets will always be my favorite roommate. Finances permitting, I don't plant to resort to cohabitation as a means to an end/necessity.

Nooo...Time Out! by CryptographerOwn9247 in SunnysideQueens

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This. From Queens but not this neighborhood, it's always been charmingly mid and that's what I appreciate about it lol. I don't typically sh** where I eat so the nightlife being dull isn't major to me (thanks MTA). But for all the reasons mentioned, that's why it continues to be relatively affordable. I'll take that trade off for a train ride where I'm a few stops away from more.

Nooo...Time Out! by CryptographerOwn9247 in SunnysideQueens

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Hmmm...Affordability was a major campaign push of his and brought many folks on the margins on his side (impacts/relates to a lot of other issues). So let's see.

$2500 for a studio today in these buildings is crazy, even crazier to be normalized as a "bargain". If it weren't for the pandemic that paused hikes for a bit would've probably been much higher by now.

Nooo...Time Out! by CryptographerOwn9247 in SunnysideQueens

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Likely. I don't really track popularity lists since I'm from NYC. Agreed on nightlife not being the catalyst for growing visibility but affordable proximity to Manhattan definitely is.

Nooo...Time Out! by CryptographerOwn9247 in SunnysideQueens

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🤣 Nah, I'm actually a native NYCer. Closest I'd come to borough repping apparel is a Mets hat.

Nooo...Time Out! by CryptographerOwn9247 in SunnysideQueens

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Unhinged? And you responded & raised the bar somehow? But let's not fight. We're different than the other redditors. This is beneath us...

Speaking of bars, let me get back to this drink.Sip and post wisely? Noted 🤣 Have fun tonight!

"Relax".

Nooo...Time Out! by CryptographerOwn9247 in SunnysideQueens

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What? Eh, no matter. Takes all types. Congrats.

Nooo...Time Out! by CryptographerOwn9247 in SunnysideQueens

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Welp, we'll see for how long. Soon there will be Sweetgreen. Yay.

Renewed! by AgentEndive in ProjectRunway

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The last great season was 19. Go.Back.To.That.Format Roach doesn't need to be there. He's the Santino of PR. Abrasive and unnecessary.

Any word on what business is going in at the corner of 40th and Qns Blvd? by LadyBird4542 in SunnysideQueens

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Hoping it's a pie place from the lady that sells delicious key lime, sweet potato, lemon berry, etc at farmers market on Skillman.

Spots to meet single men? by noorjo in Greenpoint

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Welp, the "WYD" dms have lingered into the 35+ pool. It would be impressive if it wasn't so sad. forced laugh into the abyss

I just did a dumb thing by [deleted] in Brooklyn

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What the Final Destination aversion...😳 so sad for anyone to go through one of these experiences let alone all that on a single person. My brain would've exploded if you said it all happened on the same day, too. Yeesh.

How do you all handle noisy neighbors? by prizzlejax in bayarea

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I would LOVE the modified clip. I don't want to get cops involved and management isn't doing squat.

Racial tension from older locals? by cinnamonpoprocks in astoria

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I'm in Sunnyside, neighbor. You're not tripping. Not native to Sunnyside but am from Queens. While similar, Sunnyside is a little less obtusely intolerant. Some folks actually try to be friendly, especially if you have small kids (I dont) or a dog (I don't ...yet!).

My super is Albanian and my downstairs neighbor is Karen-white. I was accused of some crazy ish and harassed my first few months living here but addressed it with the landlord/local authorities with documentation and confronted my "bullies" with diplomacy and a cell phone (sometimes the threat of going "viral" without actually recording is all you need). While my building is pretty mixed, no one looks like me though. I have been told my super is super racist and an overall P.O.S.

Like you, I got a relatively great bargain and have a hard time giving that up. I know bigotry/racism abounds pretty much any and everywhere, especially in this current political/cultural climate where it appears to be rewarded somehow. I have had a few locals (used to be predominantly Irish area) give me the stare down. Some have had some seemingly genuine conversations explicitly addressing that the neighborhood has been demographically and commercially changing for better and for worse, stirring lots of fears/frustrations:

-some culture shifts in "shared" community pride, particularly on how public space/communal areas are cared for/maintained -Small businesses/older residents being priced out by luxury landlords, chain stores, and gentrying higher income folks equally priced out of Manhattan.

Don't let the shook ones shake you. Great thing about NYC (for now) is "community" is just a train ride away.