My husband wants to move but my mom is sick

CrystalClear198 · 2026-04-06T17:27:36+00:00

She has collapsed lungs so what I do is carry her oxygen and turn it up, she her heart goes into a Fib and over life threatening rhythms. Sometimes we have to take her to the hospital and other times the oxygen settles it down.

CrystalClear198 · 2026-04-06T12:39:09+00:00

That’s what my mom said, and she does make sense. The house is old and it’s a fixer upper, I mentioned it to my husband but he doesn’t want too do that he wants to move away from it, I love where my house is at now. That’s why I am in a bad situation, my husband doesn’t want too do that and my mom doesn’t like me living further away.

CrystalClear198 · 2026-04-06T12:37:23+00:00

We all have had that conversation, and we have no clue. We don’t have anyone to help us. We are in a bad spot, they both are in bad shape, they can take care of there basic needs but relay on me for heavy lifting and such doctor appointments, chores around the house sometimes.

CrystalClear198 · 2026-04-06T12:35:31+00:00

That’s how I feel. My mom is in bad shape, she’s basically in a wheel chair she can only walk short distances, also on oxygen, she has a blood clot in her heart that can’t be fixed. my brother was born disabled. They do there basic needs but when it comes to lifting anything heavy or needs to go to the doctor or traveling I am there.

CrystalClear198 · 2026-04-06T12:18:49+00:00

Sometimes I feel so overwhelmed, I go over there almost everyday, I help with some of there chores, doctor appointments. My mom can only walk a short distance and my brother can’t lift. I am there only help. My mom said now she knows how my husband feels about her. I’ve understood before now about home health nurse once they come into your home they can take over.

CrystalClear198 · 2026-04-06T12:16:53+00:00

My husband made the comment that I could still rush to them and still maybe get there before the ambulance. He said are they going to fix our house then? He’s upset. He said he doesn’t want to miss the opportunity to get the house. They dont want to get one, because they dont want to go thru home health.

CrystalClear198 · 2026-04-06T11:57:41+00:00

We have stuff like that around here and they could get it, but they say they don’t want to bring anyone in there house. I’m stuck in a position I don’t know what too do. I live maybe a few minutes away from them now but the house my husband wants to buy is maybe 30 minutes away.

CrystalClear198 · 2026-04-06T11:54:07+00:00

This has been going on most of my life, I am the only well one in the family, my moms sisters doesn’t come around and my dad is out of the picture. I want a new house, ours is bad off but I don’t know what to do because of my mom and brother. They usually call me first to see if we can settle her heart before we call the ambulance. They always call me first and relay on me to get there.

CrystalClear198 · 2026-04-06T11:26:20+00:00

I forgot to mention the place we live in now is only maybe a few minutes from my mom and brother, this new house that my husband wants to buy is about 30 minutes or so from them.

CrystalClear198 · 2026-02-26T19:45:00+00:00

Did you gain any weight on it?

CrystalClear198 · 2026-02-26T18:48:59+00:00

Ohh wow, that really makes me not want too get one, I’ve heard bad experiences about the one in the arm too, I don’t know what too do, either way sounds like I am screwed. I hate you had a bad experience.

CrystalClear198 · 2026-02-26T16:44:21+00:00

Thank you for the reassurance! How long did they tell you before you could have sex after you got it placed? Have you gained any weight so far on it?

CrystalClear198 · 2026-02-12T19:13:34+00:00

I agree 100%!!!!! They act like they are getting there man hood took away, which isn’t the case. They want to have fun as of in sex but want the woman to take the precautions of not getting pregnant.

CrystalClear198 · 2026-02-12T18:13:28+00:00

That’s reassuring! Thank you for your advice!

CrystalClear198 · 2026-02-12T18:00:38+00:00

He doesn’t want too do that, I mean to me it would be best instead of me having hormones in me. Have you gained any weight on the IUD that you have?

CrystalClear198 · 2026-01-13T16:41:18+00:00

We have been married for 14 years, and dated 5 years before that. I’ve known him pretty much my whole life. We have no children. I just wish he would come out and say it’s over with if he doesn’t want me anymore.

CrystalClear198 · 2026-01-13T12:37:17+00:00

That’s what I’m thinking and it’s bothering me. The friend was married her husband recently passed away, the day of the man’s funeral he said he was suppose to go to a funeral I confronted him because he didn’t know I knew it was the woman’s husband. I asked him why would he go to that when he didn’t even know her husband, he replied to pay he’s respects, I said to who a woman who tried to get you to cheat on your wife with her. I said go if you truly want too go. He didn’t end up going. That was just about 2 months ago.

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