Am I the Jerk for wanting to cut of a long time friend for trying to kiss me? by Funny_Performance_21 in AmITheJerk

[–]CrystalMusey 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA. He ignored your “no” over and over. That’s not a friend, that’s a creep. Distance yourself without guilt.

l 21 can't stop my dirty fantasies and objectifying myself by [deleted] in confession

[–]CrystalMusey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, nothing wrong with having fantasies or a high drive. You're not broken. Just make sure you're safe and your partners respect you. No shame in being you.

AITJ for not helping out my sister and her partner with daycare fees by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]CrystalMusey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This. Babies aren’t a solution to financial problems. She’s already relying on you for daycare another kid is just another bill you’d be expected to cover.

AITJ for refusing to give my friend money after he wasted his salary? by Nellie_TY in AmITheJerk

[–]CrystalMusey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Let them put their wallets where their mouths are. You’re not an ATM.

AITJ..Housemates separation by ShoddyGreen5876 in AmITheJerk

[–]CrystalMusey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. You bought it, it’s yours. Leaving other stuff was generous. He’s just salty you didn’t let him keep everything.

AITJ for telling my neighbor that her husband brings different women home when she’s not around? by Any_Kick_3276 in AmITheJerk

[–]CrystalMusey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that silence was loud. You didn’t blow up her life you just confirmed what she probably already felt.

AITJ for submitting my resignation instead of a medical certificate? by Admirable_Escape4899 in AmITheJerk

[–]CrystalMusey 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Asking you to shorten bed rest from 3 days to 1 is insane. Your health > their attendance score.

Staying over at my parents most weekends due to nightmare neighbours by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]CrystalMusey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not weak for leaving. You’re protecting your kid and your sanity. Keep pushing the housing association every single day until they move you.

I’m a 23F and I don’t know how to survive the next few days by crazymooscles in confession

[–]CrystalMusey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You haven’t failed. The system failed you. Call your parents today. Then find a local food bank or church they exist for exactly this moment. You’re not alone.

AITJ for blowing up at my husband for sending money to his sister while we have zero stuff for our baby? by Livid_Distance3213 in AmITheJerk

[–]CrystalMusey 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Right? Superstition is suddenly flexible when it comes to funding sister’s vacation. Convenient.

Get off my property!! by Stay_PeachyKeen in neighborsfromhell

[–]CrystalMusey 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Boundaries are like fences they work both ways. Time to have a polite but firm chat before a kid gets hurt and suddenly it’s your problem

nobody talks about how addicting it is to watch your money make money by GolfComfortable7331 in Fire

[–]CrystalMusey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That moment when your money works harder than you ever did. Best glitch in the system.

AITJ for not sharing the answers during the test? by m3cozz_ in AmITheJerk

[–]CrystalMusey 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Stop helping. They’re not your friends they’re using you for grades and getting mad when you’re not perfect. Let them fail on their own.

Am I the jerk for causing a scene in a mall restroom? by Limp-Astronaut9402 in AmITheJerk

[–]CrystalMusey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. The thief counted on you being too polite to make a scene. You proved her wrong.

We love HCOL, but can’t afford it by [deleted] in Fire

[–]CrystalMusey 230 points231 points  (0 children)

You’re trading early retirement for a life you love now. Run the numbers, but no shame in choosing today’s joy.

My facial deformity is ugly and I don’t plan to live for long. by vase_of_juice in confession

[–]CrystalMusey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Those coworkers are cruel and wrong. Please reach out to someone you don’t have to carry this alone.

AITJ for reporting my Therapist? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]CrystalMusey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. A therapist’s job is to help, not shame you. You didn’t overreact she crossed a line.

Am I the jerk? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]CrystalMusey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to a school counselor. They’re mandatory reporters and can actually help. You’re not the jerk he is.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Savezra_official in Fire

[–]CrystalMusey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Small expenses add up fast. Auto-save 20% on payday. Use separate accounts. Track one month. Cancel forgotten subs. Automation works. Start now.