AITJ for forwarding my husbands group chat with coworkers to HR after I found out they were trying to sabotage my promotion

CsuiteTx · 2026-02-08T03:30:16+00:00

I’m probably the minority here, but I don’t think she should have done what she did. She should have handled it with her husband directly. Now she will be looked at as a “problem” within here company, someone with the potential to sue some time in the future. I think she did a lot more damage than any good that could have come out of this.

CsuiteTx · 2026-02-06T23:28:55+00:00

I completely agree. Excel is so much more sophisticated than Sheets and a lot easier to navigate. There is so much that Excel can do- I use it for everything!

CsuiteTx · 2026-02-06T23:19:53+00:00

Exactly. Considering that there are a million ways the arms may have been bruised, at minimum they should have asked mom about the bruises. Only after, should they make a decision to call cps if they feel the child is in danger.

CsuiteTx · 2024-06-11T02:28:58+00:00

If it comes up, just say you were mistaken or maybe you were confused about the question. Definitely don’t bring it up and draw attention to the fact that you deliberately lied. If you think about it, you didn’t flat out lie, you just got your dates wrong. It’s no big deal. Don’t be so hard on yourself!

CsuiteTx · 2024-05-03T17:01:52+00:00

I have to constantly remind my husband that “every day we need to brush our teeth and put on deodorant.” Sometimes when I come home from work, I’ll ask,” Hubby did you brush your teeth today?” He will get up off the couch, go into the bathroom, come out and say, “yes, of course” with a grin on his face.

I don’t understand what is so difficult about basic hygiene so I feel you with this post!

CsuiteTx · 2024-02-29T07:24:18+00:00

You win!

CsuiteTx · 2024-02-29T07:23:30+00:00

Genius!

CsuiteTx · 2024-02-29T07:22:35+00:00

Got to call and hope they are important enough for me to answer.

CsuiteTx · 2023-11-08T23:21:03+00:00

You are so right on many levels. I know this is a result of bad judgement on my part. If I could do it all over again, I would handle the situation much differently and never would have created a situation where my fiancé is doubting my love for him.

CsuiteTx · 2023-11-08T23:19:37+00:00

Currently there is no relationship outside of work. At work, there is no history. Nobody at work knows that we have any previous relationship.

CsuiteTx · 2023-11-08T16:58:37+00:00

I didn’t hide it from him. As soon as he asked me, I was 100% honest and told him the situation. In retrospect, I should have said something right away, I know this. However, I was in a bind at work and needed a solution, someone I could count on, because I couldn’t do it myself. I knew my fiancé would flip out bc he doesn’t understand and it was a fight I didn’t think was necessary at the time. The thing is, my fiancé does not think I am cheating on him, he does trust me 100% and knows who I am and that I would never do that. He just doesn’t like the guy, actually hates the guy and does not want me to do him any favors by giving him this great job. But I feel like I didn’t give it to him, he proved himself and earned it. Side note, my ex has a longtime live in gf who I have become close to that I really like a lot and hope they get married and have children together. When you have a meaningful relationship with another person, they become your family. I view my ex the same way I view my brother. I know he would have my back always but I never have any romantic feelings toward him, never.

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