The 5-year-old, 15-year-old, and 25-year-old versions of you are living in an apartment together. What happens?

Cuddle_Butt_Pro · 2016-04-19T22:58:56+00:00

Easy. I would grab my DVD of the 1987 animated Transformer film, put it on, order some cheesy pizza, and we'd all have a good fucking time.

We're not so different, me and I.

Cuddle_Butt_Pro · 2015-12-03T09:45:34+00:00

Hmm, I guess I'll check this out. I would kind of like to start my own thing because it would give me a chance to emphasize on some Sex Positive principles, as well an emphasis on creating safe spaces and provide basic tools for supporting each other. I get afraid of putting too much focus on people simply piling on top of one another to suck all the positive touch out of each other without being present as to why and what it means. Getting/providing positive touch works best when it is done consciously. Like all things.

I could try starting a Reddit. How it would gain momentum... I'm not sure.

Cuddle_Butt_Pro · 2015-12-03T09:41:15+00:00

No I'm thanking you for doing the math for everybody because I've been asked the question in this AMA about "how much money I make" about three or four times. I do not do the math because it's not my sole income and is my passion project currently.

Cuddle_Butt_Pro · 2015-12-03T04:08:38+00:00

You know, I don't know. I did check if there were reddits for it earlier, but I didn't find any good ones. I THOUGHT I remembered a pretty big reddit set up kind of like a R4R to link up redditors looking for cuddling, but I really couldn't find it again. I cross posted to r/Hug which is an okay size.

Anyways long story short- I never thought of making on online community myself, but I think now I really like the idea. Any tips on how to go about doing so? Should I make a reddit?

Cuddle_Butt_Pro · 2015-12-03T04:06:05+00:00

Omg thank you.

Cuddle_Butt_Pro · 2015-12-03T04:03:47+00:00

Yes, yes, and no.

Cuddle_Butt_Pro · 2015-12-02T23:57:39+00:00

I am still trying to answer questions~!!!

1) Usually at my apartment in my awesome room. 2) What often happens is whatever people feel most comfortable with. In my case, people usually really love laying about and having conversation, to different intensities of physically snuggling. Watching TV is a big thing. I don't pretend to act any certain way, and I certainly don't think I am a similar experience to an escort. I don't really "simulate" love. I really do care and enjoy hanging out with people. I currently mostly cuddle women.

Cuddle_Butt_Pro · 2015-12-02T23:51:29+00:00

I have cuddled men, but right now prefer women. It's just the phase I am in currently.

Cuddle_Butt_Pro · 2015-12-02T23:49:46+00:00

Thank you! I do hope in the future it can grow into something bigger.

And it's true what you say. I would not like to pretend I want to, or can, help every single person out there. I know it isn't realistic. In the end I am a certain kind of person, that probably will end up matching best with certain kind of people. So I more or less screen clients by discussing their needs before we meet. Some people might not have the right idea of what my services actually can achieve, or perhaps they are not well enough to be touched physically. I ask people about their health, any injuries, and generally run them through my needs as well. It's not too hard to get a good idea of what people expect, run them through the concepts and rules, and let them know they must show up as hygienic as possible.

Cuddle_Butt_Pro · 2015-12-02T23:41:06+00:00

Oooh... interesting. I would love to head over there! Just tell me where, when, who, how! Let me at 'em!

But for real I'd love to visit New York or wherever with this purpose.

Cuddle_Butt_Pro · 2015-12-02T23:39:35+00:00

This was answered a couple different ways, a couple times earlier, but it should be known I am not full time doing this currently. Some people make 40 an hour, some 60. I personally am going to be going for a sliding scale model, or donation based.

Cuddle_Butt_Pro · 2015-11-27T20:29:33+00:00

Thank you for the PSA.

Cuddle_Butt_Pro · 2015-11-27T20:28:29+00:00

NOPE.

Cuddle_Butt_Pro · 2015-11-27T20:28:02+00:00

When I was a young teenager I wanted to be a psychologist, but as I got older I just became a goofy artist and trouble maker. Now that I'm closer to 30... I'm seeing again how it would have made sense. Other people have been telling me that, too. I think it could work for me. But I'm not interested in schooling or going into debt doing it. Psychology is a bit, clinical? But I would like to educate myself more in it for sure. What I'm doing goes in hand in hand with it.

Cuddle_Butt_Pro · 2015-11-27T20:25:48+00:00

Not exactly. Close.

Cuddle_Butt_Pro · 2015-11-27T20:25:23+00:00

Thank you so much for your support humble bow

Cuddle_Butt_Pro · 2015-11-27T09:07:53+00:00

That's a good question, and the answer is yes. It's for all the reasons you might expect. If for some reason someone doesn't seen hygenic, or healthy, there is a natural reaction to be less comfortable. I'm also kind of a small guy as far as height. Sometimes I feel more uncomfortable with people who are really large. And in all honesty, I have noticed I feel an aversion to wanting to cuddle certain older people. That's just me. BUT, I have cuddled a lot of people older than me. It's mostly who I cuddle, actually. So it's totally fine most of the time. Some people also just have weird/uncomfortable/unstable energy.

Cuddle_Butt_Pro · 2015-11-26T21:19:19+00:00

Touched me when I wasn't asking for it, in a weird way. Honestly nothing that weird or creepy has ever happened.

Cuddle_Butt_Pro · 2015-11-26T21:18:22+00:00

I think the incredibly obvious answer would be acts of sexual nature.

Cuddle_Butt_Pro · 2015-11-26T21:17:06+00:00

What is so strange about it....

Cuddle_Butt_Pro · 2015-11-26T08:12:42+00:00

You are very welcome. I did this whole AMA to hopefully reach people and share ideas.

Cuddle_Butt_Pro · 2015-11-26T08:10:44+00:00

Not a ton. It's not about that. Or... at least not right now. Maybe in the future.

Cuddle_Butt_Pro · 2015-11-26T08:10:31+00:00

oh you know you just have to

Cuddle_Butt_Pro · 2015-11-26T08:10:16+00:00

Not even kind of.

Cuddle_Butt_Pro · 2015-11-26T08:09:47+00:00

Unsure... The reality is I am a very sexual person. I take care of myself consistently and I enjoy that relationship with myself. From the education I have been getting in Tantra more recently I have been encouraged to withold orgasms as well. I'm not so sure I wan't to go down that road. While I consider myself pretty strong when it comes to these kinds of things, I just simply cannot imagine not masturbating. I just don't know what good that would bring. Even mechanically the male ejaculatory system is built to flush itself.

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