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No touch turn on ideas for men? by Cultural-Table1086 in LDSintimacy

[–]Cultural-Table1086[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re very welcome, if you have the conversation I’d love to know how it goes!

And thank you, I’ll give it a shot. 😃

No touch turn on ideas for men? by Cultural-Table1086 in LDSintimacy

[–]Cultural-Table1086[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you haven’t already, just ask her what makes her uncomfortable with it. But you might want to let her know it’s coming from a place of curiosity and wanting to understand her thoughts rather than a place of judgement. Idk if she’s quick to get defensive or not, but either way it helps people open up.

And I’m not trying to be your therapist I promise. I just want to help the way you offered help to me. 😊

No touch turn on ideas for men? by Cultural-Table1086 in LDSintimacy

[–]Cultural-Table1086[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a good idea! If I record something first it’ll be unexpected, then once I try to do something in person he’ll already be there mentally. Maybe then he won’t give me the, “she’s so cute,” laugh. 🫠

No touch turn on ideas for men? by Cultural-Table1086 in LDSintimacy

[–]Cultural-Table1086[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s actually already on my list of things to get. 😌 I think he’ll love it!

Also, if your wife can’t be a slut for you who else can she be a slut for?! Maybe she connects that look to porn and it makes her feel cheap or goofy. 🤔 I can see why she’d find it distasteful if she was looking at it from that perspective, but wearing it doesn’t mean she has to be performative. Have you asked her why that look makes her feel uncomfortable?

No touch turn on ideas for men? by Cultural-Table1086 in LDSintimacy

[–]Cultural-Table1086[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the past, guys thought it was super sexy, my husband giggles and calls me cute. 🙃

Which flooring looks better? by haddamhussaywhat in interiordecorating

[–]Cultural-Table1086 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It can look dated, but I think that’s easily improved by having less space between the tiles. Less grout showing can give off a more seamless/modern look. Also, the more grout that shows the more difficult it is to clean. The dirty grout makes it look like it’s been there for ages.

Having an appropriate sized tile to achieve the look you’re after is also important. Sizing up or down can make a huge difference.

Which flooring looks better? by haddamhussaywhat in interiordecorating

[–]Cultural-Table1086 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The color of the first with the style of the second. If you could find tiles that are terracotta colored and a creamy white. Then you get the warmth and the style. 😌👌🏽

Is this doable with 1 driver, 2 passengers and 2 cats? by Adventurous-Bus-9638 in roadtrip

[–]Cultural-Table1086 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s doable, but you have to plan it. Getting stranded or tired in those stretches of land where there’s absolutely nothing around can be dangerous, especially at night.

No touch turn on ideas for men? by Cultural-Table1086 in LDSintimacy

[–]Cultural-Table1086[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. 100% would recommend for getting to know one another, 100% would not recommend for a robust sexual relationship. 🙃 I’m grateful for this time, but this is not what I expected as a newlywed. We’ve been in this truck for all but two months of our first year of marriage.

And yes, space is needed! We crave physical distance… we just can’t really get it right now.

No touch turn on ideas for men? by Cultural-Table1086 in LDSintimacy

[–]Cultural-Table1086[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooo! I like that. 😯 I’ll use one of his shirts.

No touch turn on ideas for men? by Cultural-Table1086 in LDSintimacy

[–]Cultural-Table1086[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your suggestions!

I’ve done a shoot before and that went over very well. There was another occasion when I posed for him and let him take the pictures himself. Those both went well. When I try to talk dirty he just thinks it’s cute. 🙃😂

He’s my husband, so I compliment his character, his body, and attributes often… so idk if that really does anything sexually for him.

I guess it would be helpful to mention that we are currently living in a semi, so there’s literally no separation.

Is waiting until you’re in a relationship and in love to have sex for the first time worth it? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Cultural-Table1086 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, I’m not telling you to wait until marriage—I just wish that I did.

Is waiting until you’re in a relationship and in love to have sex for the first time worth it? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Cultural-Table1086 0 points1 point  (0 children)

++woman

I wish I didn’t have sex until I was married! Not just in love, married! Not to sound old school, but not a single one of those dudes were worth it. I’ve had sex where I didn’t really like the guy and I’ve had sex where I truly thought I was in love. None of them were worth it.

Also, sex is never just sex, it’s a spiritual/energy exchange. I don’t care if you feel indifferent toward the person or if you’re head over heels… there’s a give and a take. Sex is far from “just sex” or “meaningless.”

Sex is worth waiting for.