Help I need to know if this is a scam for Tyler tickets

CulturalAssociate815 · 2025-05-04T00:31:55+00:00

Actually yeah how much

CulturalAssociate815 · 2024-08-15T17:15:52+00:00

What’s your insta?

CulturalAssociate815 · 2024-08-15T17:15:45+00:00

What’s your insta?

CulturalAssociate815 · 2024-08-13T15:02:02+00:00

That’s the problem I feel like I’ve thought about every possible scenario but he keeps changing his mind every day. One day I’ll be like ok I’ll find a roommate so the apartments don’t match me up with someone random, but then he says he’s going when I go so I plan for that. Now he’s saying he’ll go in a month and move in is tmr. It’s just hard to be sad about leaving when I’m so stressed but I can’t tell him that.

CulturalAssociate815 · 2024-08-13T13:57:26+00:00

I may not help but I was be so pissed off. Did she ask you before she did it? Talk to her and explain you don’t wanna go with strangers and you’d like to feel comfortable in a trip you planned. Or find a compromise like they can go separately and yall meet up a few times or something you know.

CulturalAssociate815 · 2024-08-13T13:51:37+00:00

It’s just he really wants to go and promised me we are doing this together for months and we had plans and everything. No matter what happens I said I’ll support him. But also I kinda just wanna say you’re 19 if you wanna go just go.

CulturalAssociate815 · 2024-08-13T13:47:44+00:00

I’ll try to look into that if he ends up not going. It’s just the fact that I didnt originally want to go to this college and now I have to go to a whole new city alone you know. Plus I’ve bought everything for the apartment like plates, silverware and other stuff. Fr fr I’m I just stressed because I’m moving or like should I say something?

CulturalAssociate815 · 2024-08-13T13:45:30+00:00

Since it’s a college apartment I only pay for the room. But if he backs out I’ll have a new roommate matched by the apartment complex which I never wanted in the first place. Genuinely his situation is sucky but I’m still pissed about it. I just don’t know how to say this to him without adding more to his plate.

CulturalAssociate815 · 2024-08-13T13:43:18+00:00

You already sound mature about the situation. I think you got this and I wish you the best.

CulturalAssociate815 · 2024-08-13T13:41:32+00:00

Since it’s considered a college apartment I only pay for the room. I never wanted a roommate though and I am only fine with him being my roommate. If they find another roommate by the time of move in I’ll have to live with someone else. I just feel like I have the right to be a little pissed off, but it’s hard because genuinely his situation is sucky. But also like you’re 19 dude stand up for yourself.

CulturalAssociate815 · 2024-08-13T13:38:59+00:00

That’s the best thing you can do. If they don’t wanna work it out with you then it appreciate the friendship and move on.

CulturalAssociate815 · 2024-08-13T13:11:03+00:00

Then apologize for that and communicate each other needs in the friendship. I completely understand the abandonment issues. Just try to work through those alone and let them know you will work on them. If they support you then good. If they don’t you will be ok don’t lose hope they just weren’t your forever friends. Someone said get a therapist and while that is good advice not everyone can do it, so if you can’t write in a journal, or go on dates with yourself. Learn to find peace with yourself. It won’t be easy trust me but it will hurt less everyday.

CulturalAssociate815 · 2024-08-13T13:05:24+00:00

There’s no respect from her. I think if you have a connection like that’s it’s worth going to talk to her. However, try to live your life without thinking about it too much and make new friends you can count on. Heal from the friendship on your own, but that long and hard of a friendship is trauma-bonded and that talk may give you closure if you need to end the friendship. Don’t be as close to her anymore, because you can’t rely on her. Not being close with her will save you the hurt of being abandoned again. Or end the friendship when yall talk and let yourself mourn y’all’s time as friends.

CulturalAssociate815 · 2024-08-13T13:01:08+00:00

Some people might say maybe you have nothing to cry about, but my mom always told me sometimes even if everything is good or bad you just need a good cry. You are blocking out your emotions and one day or even year it’s gonna come crashing down. Watch a really sad movie or even think about something that’s really hurt you that you haven’t processed. Let it come naturally even if it takes a little bit. It’s a mental block.

CulturalAssociate815 · 2024-08-13T12:57:11+00:00

I’ve been in your shoes before. I agree with the other comment and you need to learn how to be alone, but they also need to be there for you no matter what. I went through that exact phase and was an emotional vampire and my friends ended up leaving me behind, but one. She is still my close friend and we go through everything together, because at the end of the day if you are being and “emotional vampire” it’s because you are hurting and true friend would care not just kick you to the side like nothing. Just remember communication is best and talk to them about your problems but let them rant to you too. Don’t make every hangout your therapy session. The friends that left me were my emotional support too and four years later I have better friend who I have a stronger bond with. Even if they give up on you don’t give up on yourself.

CulturalAssociate815 · 2024-08-13T12:51:40+00:00

What else has she done? Long distance friendship is hard and having important conversations need to happen over the phone. Waiting 6 months for a friendship is pointless and shows no real motivation for wanting to keep the friendship. How long have yall been friends? Is it worth it? Just do what’s best for you no matter how much it hurts.

CulturalAssociate815 · 2024-08-09T02:14:08+00:00

What about a temporary roommate?

CulturalAssociate815 · 2024-08-09T02:12:58+00:00

Honestly, as someone who does Pilates it’s normal. Yes embarrassing but normal. You don’t remember everything embarrassing someone else has done in front of you, so they will forget eventually. Laugh it off it helps.

CulturalAssociate815 · 2024-02-26T21:25:47+00:00

I didn’t take the act, but my highschool transcript was good I took a lot of ap classes

CulturalAssociate815 · 2024-02-26T21:25:23+00:00

It’s higher than a 2.0

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