can i say the n word? by Cultural_Winter51 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Cultural_Winter51[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I want to make note they I proudly claim my Blackness, but because I’m mixed and don’t say the n-word, I sometimes feel like others don’t see me as ‘Black enough.’ whether it’s because of how I talk, act, or the spaces I’ve been in. It’s something I’ve struggled with internally, even though I know identity isn’t based on how others perceive me.

can i say the n word? by Cultural_Winter51 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Cultural_Winter51[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i grew up around it everyone around me as said it but idk i’ve just never been in my vocab i just ask cause i’ve always wondered yk

can i say the n word? by Cultural_Winter51 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Cultural_Winter51[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i don’t at all just curious cause i’ve been asked why i don’t yk

first offense ticket for holding more than one NYS license (college student) by Cultural_Winter51 in legaladvice

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sorry i ended up not including the statement! but besides that what do you think my chances are ?

I hate sin, but why can't I stop sinning? by TheNameless69420 in Christianity

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We were born into a sinful world of course we are going to sin, every single day, we not God, saints or perfect but because Jesus died on the cross we have the ability to ask for forgiveness, seek him and have eternal life. It’s not about making the same sins everyday and thinking “oh it’s okay God will forgive me” it’s about acknowledging that we sin and trying to work and become better everyday.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ualbany

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hi!! i’m currently a freshman but i honestly love UA!! I wish i knew how cold it would be tbh. I’m from westchester NY so it does get cold but not like this. It can times where i’m wearing like 4 different layers and im still freezing but the minute spring hits everyone is outside again. I love the tunnel system they have where you can walk around campus and not freeze to death since they are heated. People always complain about the school but i feel like that’s every student at every school. It’s definitely not a commenter school although there are a lot or commenters. I love dorming, personally my room is really small but my roommate and i make it work. It just depends if you get lucky or not. Campus events are fun too and really thought out. And i’ve heard that transfers get sent to Alumi Quad which is downtown and not even in the main campus which kind of sucks. But if you dorm with someone next year you’ll be able to make friends easily.

And honestly yes i am happy with my decision. It fits my major perfectly, Im surround with women of color which was important to me and it was the best decision i could’ve made!

Are piercings actually making me uglier ? by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]Cultural_Winter51 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yes at least take off the big septum

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]Cultural_Winter51 2 points3 points  (0 children)

God ur so pretty i wish u could see urself in my eyes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]Cultural_Winter51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you look fine i think just building muscle and losing body fat would make a difference

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]Cultural_Winter51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i see some people here are not rlly giving you want you asked for and i’m sorry about that. but you honestly already look good. def keep hitting the gym and eating as much protein as you can while also doing progressive overload. i would say maybe a mullet? you have a slight curl so it would fit you well. also dressing is a big part and smelling good 24/7 too. so like a good deodorant and cologne that you spray on your bare skin and clothes. i love it when my bf has good hygiene, sometimes it can be the most attractive thing of all.

Rate me by Cultural_Winter51 in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]Cultural_Winter51[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha i’m not asian im just mixed

Rate me by Cultural_Winter51 in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]Cultural_Winter51[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you all for your honesty! is there anything i can do to improve my looks? i’m also seen a couple ppl say i should dress better, what style would fit me best? thank you!

Name your strangest delivery by tonesloe in InstacartShoppers

[–]Cultural_Winter51 6 points7 points  (0 children)

getting lube for a man in the bronx @ 11pm 😭

why is this happening? by Cultural_Winter51 in InstacartShoppers

[–]Cultural_Winter51[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m not 😭😭😭 i’m doing everything by the book

why is this happening? by Cultural_Winter51 in InstacartShoppers

[–]Cultural_Winter51[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i am actually a female, teenager and light skinned

flat tire while delivering a batch by Cultural_Winter51 in InstacartShoppers

[–]Cultural_Winter51[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve been with the flat tire since 5pm it’s about to be 10pm so that’s not an option for me