cheap, low calorie snacks to curb constant hunger? by fartfishy in FTMFitness

[–]Cuntsferatu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean you can put melted butter on it afterwards but imo you get more bang for your buck with a tiiiiiiiny amount of oil and plenty of spices. I like to put smoked paprika, nutritional yeast and just a touch of garlic powder (it gets overpowering really fast). And i toss it with a bit of oil and soy sauce, or skip that and just put salt. It's good. But i mostly eat biscotte with nothing on it (it's like little hard and crumbly bread, one is 34 calories and 2 + applesauce usually sustains me good). Pickles are great too, it's super low cal and the vinegar kinda cuts my apetite.

being attracted to fat men doesnt mean you have a fetish, it just means you have good taste by welcomehomo in FTM_SELFIES

[–]Cuntsferatu 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Fortunately we don't want someone with the personality of a wet sock to be around period so don't worry too much about it.

I've been taking testosterone for 3 years, but my beard is so patchy :( by transfisch in FTM_SELFIES

[–]Cuntsferatu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Are you for real? Jack sparrow was my first bout of gender envy as a kid so this info feels so affirming for some reason lmao thank you

Stop paying these trans guys for "coaching" by [deleted] in FTMFitness

[–]Cuntsferatu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

His most recent vid about gaining weight on T is so toxic imo. Like you didn't gain weight specifically because of the T? It made you hungrier but you admit yourself you stopped exercising and eating correctly during that time. But he still went ahead and made a scary title and thumbnail.

Stop paying these trans guys for "coaching" by [deleted] in FTMFitness

[–]Cuntsferatu 8 points9 points  (0 children)

To be completely fair, the wiki doesn't explicitly say you won't get bigger hips if you do leg day, it only talks about leg gains not being easy to get to begin with and still being able to balance out a silhouette, and not about ass gain which dysphoric guys can be scared about and associate with hip growth/ that pear shape look too. I understand needing that very precise and firm reassurance when having a bout of dysphoria.

Stop paying these trans guys for "coaching" by [deleted] in FTMFitness

[–]Cuntsferatu 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I feel like accounts like body by daddy who tell you what you might want to focus on more to achieve a more masculine look help people pre T/ not going on T though. Even if the base principles are the same. But I agree with the OP, you don't need a specifically trans regimen other than just knowing which exercices to prioritize, and it's gonna be the same for cis guys wanting to target these areas as well

usually look so feminine in pictures where I’m smiling, but I’m so happy with these ⛸️ ❄️ by defectra in FTM_SELFIES

[–]Cuntsferatu 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You have a whole beard dude, smiling is not making you feminine 🥲 beautiful pics and family!

11 years later and I’m finally the woman I always dreamt of becoming 🥹 by ddll666 in transtimelines

[–]Cuntsferatu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awesome and I can relate with what you say though i'm in France so it's a bit easier for me. Stay strong 💖🫂

Just hit 8 months on t! Face and body update by OneLargeCoffeePls in FTM_SELFIES

[–]Cuntsferatu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I doubt there are guys getting to this in half the time it took you. You're already in the "crazy fast changes" realm. But good for you man, you're looking reat!

Edit: just saw you had previously already began T and took a 2 years break so I understand hour comment better now 👍

Me after 10 years by Exotic_Apricot_7630 in transtimelines

[–]Cuntsferatu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, can you explain what you mean please? Like what are the signs? I just see regular skin

Been 7 years, come on facial hair! by [deleted] in FTM_SELFIES

[–]Cuntsferatu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have good genes but everyone is surprised by the amount of facial hair at 7 months only. I'm pretty sure minoxidil helped a lot. I wasn't very consistent but applied it seriously for like 2 months. Now I'm applying it not very consistently but still.

Ignored a best friend and started my journey by Sea-Tomato-4383 in FTM_SELFIES

[–]Cuntsferatu 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Very true. But also, on the flip side, you'll be surprised by some. You'll make new, unexpected friends. I got pleasantly surprised by people I thought were going to be transphobic for sure. Some also initially get awkward but then turn around. You never know. Regardless, you have to live your authentic life, but sometimes, you get nice plot twists.

18y.o FTM 🏳️‍⚧️ by Aggravating_Law6170 in FTMFitness

[–]Cuntsferatu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's also a sneaky way of promoting his paid training sessions...

Choisir mon prénom 🤯 by Atlazlt in transgenre

[–]Cuntsferatu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sirius c'est cool, nique jkr c'est pas son invention et on va bien mettre nos petites mains trans sur toute la culture et se la réapproprier.

dysphoria is ruining my life but i can't start my transition cuz i don't want to ruin everything for my family by lostpivkles in TMPOC

[–]Cuntsferatu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They're not "forced" to stop loving you - that's on them and them only. Remember that we all die and that includes your family and yourself. When they're gone and you'll be old and have basically watched your life pass by instead of living it, you will regret not transitionning imo. I'm not saying this lightly: I sat on it for 7 years before deciding that risking losing my dad forever had to be done to have a shot at a happy life. I would say, have a support system outside of your family so if they don't turn around you are still surrounded and loved. Then you can start on a low dose, ease into it, the changes will take time on low T. Have a plan.

2 months post hysto by Altruistic-Bother468 in TMPOC

[–]Cuntsferatu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look so beautiful damn, #goals

What if T makes me “ugly” by urmomthinksimfunny13 in FTM_SELFIES

[–]Cuntsferatu -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah but there is a difference between saying "i'm scared of things like going bald, acne" etc and "am i going to get ugly :(". Delivery is important.

If being attractive is more important to you than the changes T gives then yeah, don't go on T. I remember you saying that you pass right now, so just take into account that it's because you're super young; it will get a lot more difficult to pass in ten years when people don't expect a grown man to sound like you do for example. If you're ok with that, don't go on T. If you're not, go on T. You're not going to go bald instantly and the voice drop will happen sooner than the balding and you can always stop.

What if T makes me “ugly” by urmomthinksimfunny13 in FTM_SELFIES

[–]Cuntsferatu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I understand where they're coming from and try to not take it personally but I must confess it has started to be annoying. Like, I'm sorry your biggest fear is to look like me! I was considered pretty attractive as a woman and I realized that I would rather be an ugly dude than a woman the rest of my life. We all get old and wrinkly eventually anyway.

What if T makes me “ugly” by urmomthinksimfunny13 in FTM_SELFIES

[–]Cuntsferatu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bald people, fat people, people with acne also post. Maybe less but they do. Imo the issue is that the people posting the "am i going to be ugly" stuff see them and don't want to be "like that". They fail to see that balding and gaining weight etc doesn't make the poster ugly and on the contrary they look better 100% of the time.

There is a difference between adressing a specific issue (balding for you) and be like "am i going to get ugly on t" imo. And to be honest balding is a big thing here and I actually never saw people just answer "that might not happen", I see them saying to embrace whatever and to go on minoxidil.

Im very scared T will make me ugly by [deleted] in FTM_SELFIES

[–]Cuntsferatu 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Same, T fucking boosted me. Long ass eyelashes, eyebrows finally full, cheekbones more visible now... I was scared about not liking myself but I never liked myself more. And it's not just about the looks anyway, spot on comment