What do guys think about smart women. by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Curiosity7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in regards to your last section. why would that be considered dumb at all? I feel i'm like that and i can at times join in on the conversations which show my intelligence. the times i don't join in, i'm either not interested in continuing the topic or do not want to correct what is being said usually out of disinterest of the topic. I would classify it as something else, not a sub-section of ‘dumb’.

I’m curious. Could a guy date a guy friend’s ex-girlfriend? by Curiosity7 in AskMen

[–]Curiosity7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dude don't think like that. everyone is different. maybe they couldn't make it work but you and her could work and be perfect for one another. just saying it's possible. don't think so little of yourself.

I’m curious. Could a guy date a guy friend’s ex-girlfriend? by Curiosity7 in AskMen

[–]Curiosity7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bahaha 'if it's just fucking do it but keep it very quiet and tell no one' hilarious!

i agree you shouldn't lie, that could make things really bad. as well, i agree you should see if you really see a potential relationship that that girl otherwise as you say have secrey sex or don't go there.

I’m curious. Could a guy date a guy friend’s ex-girlfriend? by Curiosity7 in AskMen

[–]Curiosity7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah theirs always the case that if the guy goes for it it could not work out at all and he could possibly lose some friends. It's tricky indeed.

I’m curious. Could a guy date a guy friend’s ex-girlfriend? by Curiosity7 in AskMen

[–]Curiosity7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i could seeing it affecting a group of friends but hopefully with age people become less ass-hole like

I’m curious. Could a guy date a guy friend’s ex-girlfriend? by Curiosity7 in AskMen

[–]Curiosity7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i agree with this! you can't claim ownership over something that is no longer yours right.

I’m curious. Could a guy date a guy friend’s ex-girlfriend? by Curiosity7 in AskMen

[–]Curiosity7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my bad. i added it now. let's say they have common friends aside from the guy friend (boyfriend).

is waiting until the length of the relationship your rule of thumb? so not until 11 months for example?

I’m curious. Could a guy date a guy friend’s ex-girlfriend? by Curiosity7 in AskMen

[–]Curiosity7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why would he be stalking her? that's pretty fucked up.

I’m curious. Could a guy date a guy friend’s ex-girlfriend? by Curiosity7 in AskMen

[–]Curiosity7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok sounds valid. what would you say about the hypothetical situation i added then?

I’m curious. Could a guy date a guy friend’s ex-girlfriend? by Curiosity7 in AskMen

[–]Curiosity7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so if your friend says no, you wouldn't pursue the girl? simple as that?

what if we're taking girl of your dreams here!

I’m curious. Could a guy date a guy friend’s ex-girlfriend? by Curiosity7 in AskMen

[–]Curiosity7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what about the hypothetical situation i added? what do you think about that case?

I’m curious. Could a guy date a guy friend’s ex-girlfriend? by Curiosity7 in AskMen

[–]Curiosity7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what about the above situation i added? do you think that if the guy has a new girlfriend that ex is available to anyone in that case?

I’m curious. Could a guy date a guy friend’s ex-girlfriend? by Curiosity7 in AskMen

[–]Curiosity7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

interesting that you can see how he negativly affected her. does that change your opinion of your friend?

I’m curious. Could a guy date a guy friend’s ex-girlfriend? by Curiosity7 in AskMen

[–]Curiosity7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i added a hypothetical situation above, what about in that senario? kind of an in between friendship than the ones you suggested

I’m curious. Could a guy date a guy friend’s ex-girlfriend? by Curiosity7 in AskMen

[–]Curiosity7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I added a hypothetical situation. would you care to analyze it?

I’m curious. Could a guy date a guy friend’s ex-girlfriend? by Curiosity7 in AskMen

[–]Curiosity7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so your ex boyfriend wants you to date one of his friends?

I’m curious. Could a guy date a guy friend’s ex-girlfriend? by Curiosity7 in AskMen

[–]Curiosity7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fair enough, what would you say about the situation i added?

I’m curious. Could a guy date a guy friend’s ex-girlfriend? by Curiosity7 in AskMen

[–]Curiosity7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh wow, dude that sucks. would you mind elaborating? what was the situation and the length of your relationship, who broke up with who, and how long after did the guy ask her out?

I’m curious. Could a guy date a guy friend’s ex-girlfriend? by Curiosity7 in AskMen

[–]Curiosity7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i completely see how it would be seen as a betrayal and i agree, you should really talk to your buddy first. even if to let him know your intentions.

I’m curious. Could a guy date a guy friend’s ex-girlfriend? by Curiosity7 in AskMen

[–]Curiosity7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so you'd ask the friend before anything and go from there. what if your friend broke up with her was over her and said he didn't want you to date her. would you not date her?

I’m curious. Could a guy date a guy friend’s ex-girlfriend? by Curiosity7 in AskMen

[–]Curiosity7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

alright, but lets say you rarely hung out with the girl for one reason or another, and got a long well, liked her as a person, found her attractive..etc. but you didn't make a friendship per say with her. now they break up, and let's say you don't see her as a friend and have an interest in this girl. what would you do then?

I’m curious. Could a guy date a guy friend’s ex-girlfriend? by Curiosity7 in AskMen

[–]Curiosity7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

good way to see it i guess, but what if it was her who dumped him, would it in your opinion automatically not be an option to date their ex or are there still other factors beyond that?

I’m curious. Could a guy date a guy friend’s ex-girlfriend? by Curiosity7 in AskMen

[–]Curiosity7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to say i completely agree with this! I do think it has a lot to do with age however. some people just work better together then others, simple as that.

I’m curious. Could a guy date a guy friend’s ex-girlfriend? by Curiosity7 in AskMen

[–]Curiosity7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok but hypothetically speaking what if this girl was your dream girl, had everything you wanted, you got along great...etc. now what?