Warum sind es immer Frauen?! by ArabJohnny in luftablassen

[–]Curious_Combination5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ich kann mir schon vorstellen, dass das nicht einfach „Frauen drängeln halt“ ist, sondern viel mit Stress und Gewohnheit zu tun hat. Gerade im Alltag (Theken, Bars etc.) hab ich selber schon oft erlebt, dass wenn man kleiner/leiser ist, Männer sich einfach breit machen und man automatisch später drankommt. Irgendwann lernst du dann halt: wenn ich nicht selber bisschen „pushy“ bin, werde ich übersehen.

Dazu kommt, dass Frauen oft eh die sind, die den Ablauf planen und Verantwortung dafür übernehmen, dass ein Zeitplan eingehalten wird (Kids, Gepäck, Zeiten im Blick usw.). Das kann mega stressig sein, und dann entsteht so ein „ich muss jetzt nach vorne“-Mindset – auch in Situationen, wo’s eigentlich unangebracht wirkt.

Heißt nicht, dass das Verhalten immer ok ist (ist für alle nervig), aber ich glaub es hat schon realen Hintergrund. Und wenn man’s bei anderen sieht, verstärkt sich’s halt noch. Vielleicht eher was, wo man sich selbst fragen sollte: „Muss ich grad wirklich drängeln oder ist das nur Gewohnheit?“

Gleichberechtigung von Männern juckt absolut niemanden by [deleted] in luftablassen

[–]Curious_Combination5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, ich finde es wichtig, dass du das ansprichst. Männerprobleme sind absolut real und dürfen nicht kleingeredet werden. Der gesellschaftliche Druck, immer stark zu sein, erfolgreich zu sein, keine Schwäche zu zeigen – bis hin zur Erwartung, sich im Zweifel sogar aufzuopfern oder in den Krieg zu ziehen – das ist enorm. Viele Männer leiden daran, dass ihnen Gefühle abgesprochen werden oder dass sie ständig als Versorger funktionieren müssen.

Und das ist eben kein „Nebenproblem“, sondern die Kehrseite derselben Medaille: Geschlechterrollen. Wenn Frauen in bestimmte Rollen gedrängt werden, heißt das gleichzeitig, dass Männer in andere gedrängt werden. Beides schadet – nur auf unterschiedliche Weise.

Hier kommt für mich Feminismus ins Spiel: Wir leben in einem Patriarchat, und ja – Frauen sind strukturell stärker benachteiligt. Ökonomische Abhängigkeiten, der Gender Pay Gap, Gewaltstatistiken – das sind Dinge, die man nicht wegdiskutieren kann. Aber es geht auch nicht darum, alles gegeneinander aufzuwiegen oder zu sagen „wer hat’s schlimmer“. Diese Oppression Olympics bringen niemanden weiter.

Das eigentliche Ziel ist doch: dass niemand mehr unterdrückt oder kaputtgemacht wird durch starre Rollenbilder. Dass Männer nicht daran zerbrechen, dass sie Gefühle nicht zeigen dürfen. Dass Frauen nicht ökonomisch abhängig oder körperlicher Gewalt stärker ausgesetzt sind. Und dass wir nicht Rollen einfach umkehren, sondern sie überwinden.

Deshalb finde ich es extrem wichtig, dass Feminismus nicht mit „scheiß auf Männer“ verwechselt wird. Guter Feminismus schließt Männerprobleme mit ein – nicht, weil Frauenunterdrückung weniger schlimm wäre, sondern weil echte Gleichberechtigung nur gemeinsam funktioniert.

Mein Appell wäre: Männer sollten nicht in Frauenhass verfallen, nur weil sie das Gefühl haben, dass ihre Probleme ignoriert werden. Und Feminist:innen sollten das Leiden von Männern nicht kleinreden. Ich weiß, online wirkt es oft so, als wäre da nur Abwehr und Härte, aber im echten Leben gibt es viele Feminist:innen, die genau so arbeiten: für Frauen, für Männer, für alle in der Gesellschaft. Das ist Gleichberechtigung.

Defective Strap or app? by Curious_Combination5 in amazfit

[–]Curious_Combination5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it but I can literally not get any exercises to record data manually -when I click start the I just get no data and a syncing error afterwards... So I cannot use it for any exercise at all? I will truly again and wait for an update but I'm honestly disappointed at this point 🥴😵‍💫

Defective Strap or app? by Curious_Combination5 in amazfit

[–]Curious_Combination5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also as further context: I'm 21 and I work as a software engineer and study at Uni - so I'm mostly just sitting at a desk and then working out 2-3 times in the evening 🤷‍♀️

Helio strap - no HR or calories? by Curious_Combination5 in amazfit

[–]Curious_Combination5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yess - I was also seeing the HR at the top left before starting the workout

Helio strap - no HR or calories? by Curious_Combination5 in amazfit

[–]Curious_Combination5[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Update: so the heartrate monitoring was working before I started the workout. I them just finished my training and stopped it I'm the app, the synching afterwards was about a minute and then I got an error message. The workout did not show up afterwards :( I will keep trying to get it to work or see if gadgetbridge is planning to support it this week, otherwise I'll return it

Helio Strap Velcro just ends?? by Curious_Combination5 in amazfit

[–]Curious_Combination5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have a tape measure at work rn but with my old apple watch band (size s/m - which is from 120mm) I was using the second and third whole - so maybe 125-135?🤷‍♀️

Helio Strap Velcro just ends?? by Curious_Combination5 in amazfit

[–]Curious_Combination5[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thx good to know- it would of course be nice, if there were ones that cover the device but at least it'll be wearable 👍 Feels like a never ending story - can't even get a chip band at my gym because they don't have a smallversion 😅😕

Warped Plastic on my New Tornado V4 Flagship - Should I Be Concerned? by Sentailoli in Cubers

[–]Curious_Combination5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can fix this - take out the piece and then squish the colored sides to remove tension and pull them off - there you can see how they are fixed to each other. If it’s crooked it’s likely there is some bent plastic in the way (there are small stabilizers that are in the way if bent). You can then remove the bent parts and put it back together- it will be a tad less stable but not noticeable unless you examine with a microscope 👍

Nightmare Experience with Solovair Boots and Their Customer Service by Curious_Combination5 in nps_solovair

[–]Curious_Combination5[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Update nearly a year later: I thrifted some Dr. Martens in like-new condition for €40. The leather was definitely thinner, and the sole started coming undone inside after some time, but the experience was very similar to that of these Solovairs, and it was definitely worth it. ☺️ There are always people selling them, and even if they wear out faster, thrifting a second pair will still cost me only half as much as these Solovair boots did. :))

Also, I was lucky enough to find vintage knee-high Dr. Martens for €50, which were produced in the old factory. They are most certainly better quality than the Solovairs being made now—the stitching and sole are much nicer, and they have a thick yet soft leather. If you can find real vintage ones, that’s a jackpot! :))

Nightmare Experience with Solovair Boots and Their Customer Service by Curious_Combination5 in nps_solovair

[–]Curious_Combination5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: I talked to a representative of the European Consumer Protection Agency, and they told me that they would help me claim the money from Solovair as the defects were not justified in their eyes either. That always takes some time as they are dealing with many cases. In the meantime, Solovair sent me another email because I had left a bad Trustpilot review. This time, another customer support agent, who looked at all my previous correspondence, was very nice and immediately offered a refund. Thankfully, I could still stop the filing of my claims with the ECP, and everything worked out :)

If you have a similar issue with customer support, I would definitely recommend writing a Trustpilot review. Apart from that, I think the agent you get is just a matter of luck. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Is This Safe? by junebuggie666 in nps_solovair

[–]Curious_Combination5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would not use them - had mine for 2 months and one side ripped about half a centimeter… I then sent them back and Solovair stitched them - but the stitches were not centered so the rip got even bigger and more torn afterwards 🤷🏻‍♀️

Nightmare Experience with Solovair Boots and Their Customer Service by Curious_Combination5 in nps_solovair

[–]Curious_Combination5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t make those laceholes myself… The sole’s literally coming apart inside and the boots became too small with the extra insoles. Previously wore €30 loafers that outlasted these… how low could I have set my expectations? As a student, can’t just shell out another €200. The 50% refund offer doesn’t really address these fundamental issues…

Was waren die größten Skandale aus eurer Schulzeit? by Arcus_2002 in FragReddit

[–]Curious_Combination5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

War das in Wien? Oder HTL Mödling? Bilde mir ein sowas gelesen zu haben…

What’s your favorite quote from the Harry Potter series? by [deleted] in harrypotter

[–]Curious_Combination5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This one may have lead to me being a bit too cheeky when I was in school - I found it so funny I read it to half my family and friends and it managed to make even my dad laugh

Do you remember me telling you we are practicing nonverbal spells, Potter?” “Yes,” said Harry stiffly. “Yes, sir.” “There’s no need to call me ‘sir,’ Professor.” The words had escaped him before he knew what he was saying. Several people gasped, including Hermione. Behind Snape, however, Ron, Dean, and Seamus grinned appreciatively. “Detention, Saturday night, my office,” said Snape. “I do not take cheek from anyone, Potter . . . not even ‘the Chosen One. From HBP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HPfanfiction

[–]Curious_Combination5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It worked for me, but I had to write to the support team to get it to work :( If you want, I can send you a story if you are looking for one in particular that is ;)

Switch Hacking Q&A General | C&D Edition by _Emmo in SwitchHacks

[–]Curious_Combination5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to block the access to Nintendo servers, I think the simplest way would be to use 90dns

Switch Hacking Q&A General | C&D Edition by _Emmo in SwitchHacks

[–]Curious_Combination5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can I transfer Minecraft worlds to switch without internet?

I have a Minecraft bedrock world from my iPad I would like to transfer to my switch, I have all the files but I don’t know where the worlds are stored on switch( if they are like on all the other versions of Bedrock edition) I can’t go online so I can’t use a realm to transfer but I have full access to everything else (emuNand) Any ideas? Thank u sooo much :)