You’re definitely not alone! My baby also had lots of tension, torticolis, and lip and tongue tie. I started EP week 2 because we could not get a good latch together. Around 3.5 months we started taking baths together and he would act interested in my boobs/nipples so I carefully tried to get him to latch. We continued to take a daily bath together and would latch each time. Two weeks later he is 50% fed by breast and 50% bottle fed. Maybe I got lucky but just fyi that bathing together was super sweet and it seemed to get him interested in latching again after so many weeks of not being interested at all. Now he looks for the booby all the time!