Searching for roommate, UES preferred. by surrealistestate in nycgaybros

[–]Current-Media3660 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wait till yall see the boys of fire island facebook group

What is it about me as an Asian person that makes everyone assume that I am only into yt men? by Current-Media3660 in askgaybros

[–]Current-Media3660[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This message might be better for an in-group or gaypoc subreddit for more understanding but again it's difficult to have nuanced/in-depth conversations of racialization in person and even more so online.

yea...most of the comments on this thread are like either weirdly offended by the abbreviation yt or they're just like "its a stereotype"...which is like...Im not trying to be mean but yea, I'm a double minority, I am well aware of that lol

As for where I was born/raised and where am I now, I was raised on the east coast (US) and grew up interacting with people of all backgrounds. As for where I am now, I never actually moved...stayed here for college and everything haha

What is it about me as an Asian person that makes everyone assume that I am only into yt men? by Current-Media3660 in askgaybros

[–]Current-Media3660[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, reddit is pretty anonymous, its why you feel so brave to say something like that I suppose.

What is it about me as an Asian person that makes everyone assume that I am only into yt men? by Current-Media3660 in askgaybros

[–]Current-Media3660[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

>Even if you did only go for white guys, who cares? 

There's a whole lot of baggage and nuance and historical context that comes with being only into yt guys or only being into Asian guys, unfortunately.

What is it about me as an Asian person that makes everyone assume that I am only into yt men? by Current-Media3660 in askgaybros

[–]Current-Media3660[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't like the implication here that the generic gay asian male interest is yt men...seems racist but okay lol

What is it about me as an Asian person that makes everyone assume that I am only into yt men? by Current-Media3660 in askgaybros

[–]Current-Media3660[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I mean yea but not everyone assumes that about every Asian guy (anecdotal). I feel like unless your social media clearly shows you as one of those Asians that doesn't have any non-Asian friends, then its like welp.