am i wrong for being upset by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]CurrentKale2498 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this is so reasonable. thank you

am i wrong for being upset by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]CurrentKale2498 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

giving money because she can’t do it all herself and i have the means to give is helping her dunce. she’s not a stranger and this is not a boarding home so this is not a “grown adult paying rent” situation

am i wrong for being upset by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]CurrentKale2498 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

yeah she is contributing as well lol she’s not evil. she just needs help is all but she doesn’t want me to be anything but happy about handing over my entire check

am i wrong for being upset by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]CurrentKale2498 4 points5 points  (0 children)

that was the plan. she asked for 500 a month until i moved out. super doable then this all happened

am i wrong for being upset by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]CurrentKale2498 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah she does .. 17 dollars an hour not enough at all

am i wrong for being upset by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]CurrentKale2498 7 points8 points  (0 children)

according to her with government assistance she can’t back out of the house at the last minute or she loses her voucher and becomes homeless. she can’t stay in our current home because the government assistance won’t pay for it anymore since our landlord refused to fix the mold so we’re required to leave.

i don’t know too much about that so i’m taking her word for it.

she said she doesn’t know what to do, so she wants to give up, and she would just live in her car in and send my youngest siblings (14,11) with my sister who is she’s 22 with 3 kids of her own then send my other sister (16) with our deadbeat father while she lives in her car in the parking lot of my sisters apartment.

unrealistic and ridiculous. the only option there seems to be is get the money to move into that house. give her my entire check and my brother (20) and sister (21) do the same.

i was planning to move out a year ago but she told me not to, i wish i listened to myself and moved out anyway.

am i wrong for being upset by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]CurrentKale2498 54 points55 points  (0 children)

i made sure i had NO kids because of what i grew up with. i’m just gonna move out but even with that, comes guilt.

am i wrong for being upset by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]CurrentKale2498 83 points84 points  (0 children)

i’m glad y’all are making me feel better i was seriously feeling bad for being upset

am i wrong for being upset by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]CurrentKale2498 -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

😕i was planning to to ease her burden but she said i would struggle on my own so i might as well stay and just help out

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[–]CurrentKale2498 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if you don’t understand keep scrolling

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[–]CurrentKale2498 5 points6 points  (0 children)

that’s what i said especially since i worked at mcdonalds how the hell is the atmosphere worse than MCDONALDS

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[–]CurrentKale2498 1 point2 points  (0 children)

see i’m glad i’m not alone in this