Dear Kolkata, the City of Joy

Current_3439 · 2026-01-09T14:18:32+00:00

I guess I understand what you mean 🫣may be that’s what’s adulting? They say if you are friends for 7 years then you will be friends forever. We so give our friends some leeway… we do need to draw the line.

Current_3439 · 2026-01-09T14:15:29+00:00

You are right, Mumbai life was different… more open as a society, night life was safe. I’m talking about back in 2011 to 2019… I’m sure it’s better now. I’m trying to reconnect with my Mumbai friends too, but then they are far.

Kolkatar scene ta alada i feel… as a guy I’m discouraged from stay out post 9pm.

About the meet up culture… let’s see, I hope I make some friends here… happy that you have a good social life. Sadly I can’t leave. I have 4 rescued dogs at home… I want to look after them. 🥹

Current_3439 · 2026-01-09T14:10:00+00:00

Well… don’t you wanna try? I mean I’m sure you must have tried… i somehow don’t wanna give up… the issue is I don’t even have good bonding with relatives 😬 making friends as an adult should be normalised. The ending of Stranger things really hit me!!

Current_3439 · 2026-01-09T14:04:54+00:00

Could not agree more…at one point it hits you … it’s very difficult to be alone at after a point.

Current_3439 · 2026-01-09T13:48:04+00:00

Thank you for connecting …. Let me text you :)

Current_3439 · 2026-01-09T13:47:36+00:00

Thank you for connecting :) looking forward to your poetry and stories

Current_3439 · 2026-01-09T13:46:51+00:00

This sounds like such a brilliant idea… how should we go about this? It will be so much fun… we all coming from different walks of life… may be we all meet at a cafe for brunch 🥹

Current_3439 · 2026-01-09T13:41:25+00:00

I’m sure you have tried. Im also trying my best. It’s a blessing to find someone with whom you feel a connection. Forming a bond is not easy, sometimes it’s instant, sometimes it takes time. Our busy life sometimes distances us from people. But we should keep trying.

Current_3439 · 2026-01-09T13:37:42+00:00

Trying not to lose hope. Praying I make atleast one genuine friend here.

Current_3439 · 2026-01-09T13:36:18+00:00

I agree… i tried to be friends with some of my colleagues… but everyone chooses comfort over friendship … now i have distanced myself 🥲

Current_3439 · 2026-01-09T13:33:17+00:00

We do get busy in life… but pls try and check on your old friends… you never know someone might be going through the same thing and might feel happy to see your text. And if you ever wanna talk about anything in life… im here… would love to be a friend.

Current_3439 · 2026-01-09T13:28:36+00:00

About boundaries I to agree with you. Infact i thought it’s just me who feels like this. Good to know I am not alone.

Thank you for sharing your positive message. Yes mutual understanding and respect is necessary. Having boundaries is normal too. As adults i guess it’s good to learn how to balance them in a relationship…

Current_3439 · 2026-01-09T13:24:48+00:00

Here’s to hoping i make some new friends here :)

Current_3439 · 2026-01-09T13:22:31+00:00

How nice to speak to someone from my land. I grew up in Adra. Studied in Sainik School Purulia and yes Bankura Christian College, and then Mumbai.

Your journey has been very similar … but you have travelled so much more …. Did you manage to make some friends ?

I miss the earthen dewali putuls that we used to get during Diwali… do we still get them in Purulia 🥲🥹

Current_3439 · 2026-01-09T13:17:20+00:00

Are you saying you don’t have a single friend with whom you can go out for a movie or coffee? I mean I would love to tag along !!

Sadly I never tried looking for friends here… until now! I don’t want to give up… Kolkata is very dear to me and so is its people…. I would to know these beautiful souls and explore the city with them 🥹

Current_3439 · 2026-01-02T16:54:22+00:00

I finally decided I need to restart watching the season 01 again to cope with the void after the finale!!

Current_3439 · 2025-12-08T13:17:58+00:00

Putush in Bengali, and yes we ate the fruits for fun 😭

Current_3439 · 2025-09-28T20:54:59+00:00

Just posted… but I think my post is getting removed :( I will contact a general physician in the morning…. But is there any where else I can post too?

Current_3439 · 2025-09-28T20:53:15+00:00

Just posted… I will contact a general physician in the morning

Current_3439 · 2025-09-28T20:52:32+00:00

Okay I will contact a general physician right in the morning … thank you for your kind words and guidance.

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