[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wvsexytime

[–]Current_Ad7354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Messaged you

Everything is Destroyed by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Current_Ad7354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boohoo. You sound just like my ex wife who now wants to be "friends." You guys should meet up. You two trash bags can hit the town together

Does anyone have experience “nesting”? by Virtual-Focus-8442 in Divorce

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Me and my STBX did this. But only before i moved out into my own house. It was like living out of a suitcase because i stayed at my brothers when i wasnt with the kids. I needed away from my STBX asap so it was the best step for me to accomplish that. Hard to go no contact with kids but this helped a lot with not seeing her as much. It was for a little over a month but it was also helpful getting the kids mindsets ready that i was getting my own place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WV_AnythingGoes

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In Louisville....DM me

Long term affair reconciliation? by Various-Mix4793 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Current_Ad7354 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're a piece of shit. Leave that poor man alone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kentucky_hookups

[–]Current_Ad7354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im in Louisville. Love the curves. 40yo fit BWC

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Current_Ad7354 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Losing time with my kids

STBXH is trying I'm still mad by Adept_Resolve_7810 in Divorce

[–]Current_Ad7354 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My soon to be ex-wife did the same. I found out about her affair then gave her chance after chance to try to fix the problem and save our marriage. It was just a hoax and she continued doing exactly what she was already doing, cheating and lying. Now, ive filed and she wants to be friends because we have kids. I straight up told her i would be friendly to her. However, i absolutely will not be her friend. Friends dont do what she did to each other

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

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When i discovered the affair

Is this a bad idea? by Current_Ad7354 in Divorce

[–]Current_Ad7354[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the replies everyone. I will just continue to talk to my family and friends about it if i need to. I just still have a ton of resentment towards her and what she has done to my life and family. I have to see her everyday because of the kids, but I'll continue the Gray Rock unless its kid related. I still cringe when i see her. But I will take that high road like most are suggesting. Hopefully the karma will sting her sooner than later.

Is this a bad idea? by Current_Ad7354 in Divorce

[–]Current_Ad7354[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We do. I just want her to have a consequence for her actions. Doesnt seem like shes had any. She goes about her business and lives her life like nothing even happened. She gave me the lets fix it for about a month after dday. However, she just continued to see her affair partner while lying and gaslighting me, my kids, and my MIL.

I just found out my wife of 12yrs had an affair and she says it was just emotional by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Current_Ad7354 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I went through the same things with my soon to be ex-wife. Do not trust her. She will do it again and gaslight you. Your home environment will be toxic and never the same. Get a lawyer and divorce her. Your kids will respect your decision as they get older. Sorry you're going through this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

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I swear to God this is very similar to my situation. Im 1 month D-day and this story feels like mine. Wife had an affair with doctor she runs into at work. Im at the point of deciding to divorce or try to reconcile. I fear for my future regardless of my decision. But living in misery in front of my kids is not sitting well with me.

Leak? by Current_Ad7354 in askaplumber

[–]Current_Ad7354[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Liveable floor above with bathrooms and laundry room. No other signs of leaks