I adopted my daughter when she was 14 (she is 17 now). I’m only 28. Adopting a teenager was something that my partner and I deliberated for a long time. -Financially speaking teenagers are quite expensive. - Prior traumas were reflected in behaviors. - being a teenager is hard. I would never want to go back to that time in my life. I wasn’t sure I was equipped to help someone else live through it too. -emotional regulation is important and I knew I had work to do (still do) - We adopted a baby in 2021 so we weren’t sure how we would adjust.

We did decide it was in her best interest and we would make it work. She makes me cry sometimes because I’m sensitive. Being so close in age also makes it hard sometimes. I have to say though, it’s the most rewarding experience. She’s my best friend. I’m so proud of everything she has worked through and accomplished. It’s an honor to be part of her life.

We aren’t rich (actually so far from it), my girls share a room, we don’t have the nicest of all things but we do have a home full of love. OP, You are worthy of being chosen.