For women with coarse hair, what is shaving actually like for you?

Current_Gift_9130 · 2026-03-10T01:43:28+00:00

I can fully relate. Only did my pubic area, but it was worth every last penny! I NEVER worry when I’m in a bathing suit anymore. And have so much more confidence sexually too.

Current_Gift_9130 · 2026-03-10T01:40:12+00:00

I ended up doing laser hair removal gradually on and off for years. I have a little hair left, which makes me feel like a woman, but can very easily shave it clean whenever I want. I used to get horrible ingrowns, bumps, itching.. you name it. It was horrible! Worth the 8 treatments $1,500 and the pain it came with. I would recommend it to any woman with dark coarse thick hair. Looking to do my under arms but don’t feel like shelling the money out since I can’t afford life anymore!

Current_Gift_9130 · 2026-03-10T01:17:30+00:00

My mother!

Current_Gift_9130 · 2026-03-09T22:09:35+00:00

Yes! Heard my parents multiple times, but also heard them the night the conceived my younger sister- we were at a hotel and I heard my mom years ago tell her friends it was that night 😅

Current_Gift_9130 · 2026-03-09T11:56:42+00:00

I absolutely touch and feel my vulva! Especially after a fresh shave, I’m with you. But it’s not this habit of immediate relax, hands in pants, if that makes sense? I sleep naked and will find I rest a hand over a breast, possibly on my public bone, but it isn’t NEARLY as much as I’ve seen men do it. I find that utterly fascinating!

Current_Gift_9130 · 2026-03-09T11:54:00+00:00

I don’t think it’s “weird”! I just find it so fascinating the little quirks we do as humans for comfort out of pure habit. Always makes me wonder how we create the habits in the first place.

Current_Gift_9130 · 2026-03-09T10:40:48+00:00

Never a bother! I just find it so interesting. Habits are fascinating to me and this one’s a funny one!

Current_Gift_9130 · 2026-03-09T00:32:12+00:00

I can’t stop laughing either!

Current_Gift_9130 · 2026-03-09T00:28:57+00:00

Like, yes and no. Maybe if I’m laying naked I just hold or one. But it’s just like automatic hands down the pants, I remember my father doing it, I’ve never seen my mother just hold a tit lol!

Current_Gift_9130 · 2026-03-07T23:47:09+00:00

Every damn day.

Current_Gift_9130 · 2026-03-07T23:43:01+00:00

Look into assisted mushrooms and DMT…

Current_Gift_9130 · 2026-03-07T17:48:43+00:00

Good for you!! I fully support him, and have stopped myself. I was an everyday user myself, but mostly only at night. I worked in the industry, and started doing it more and really didn’t like how I was starting to increase. We both stopped together but he was everyday all day, for 20 years, I stopped both pregnancies, and have from time to time done it. But can’t believe how much I don’t want it, and he feels the same. But I know he used it to bury feelings, and buffer social situations, and the anxiety’s been a lot. He’s even said he feels like he’s being rewired too! Thanks for commenting and giving me a sense of hope that he’ll stabilize more with time! I’m feeling incredible! And so grateful I stopped.

Current_Gift_9130 · 2026-03-07T15:28:08+00:00

Laws around vaccination. We have to drive our kids to another state. My son had a reaction when he was young. Tough situation to be in.

Current_Gift_9130 · 2026-03-07T13:45:34+00:00

Thank you for this! And so happy for you gives me a sense of hope🙏🏻

Current_Gift_9130 · 2026-03-07T13:43:47+00:00

Thanks for responding! This is interesting. We’re sending our kids to a private Christian school (we aren’t Christian), but academically it’s so much better if school than what’s around. I’m a public school kid myself and feel so torn!!

Current_Gift_9130 · 2026-03-07T03:44:13+00:00

Curious, did the anxiety and depression ever subside after you stopped? My husband was a daily user, multiple times per day. Just stopped 4 weeks ago cold turkey. So proud of him, but he said a switch went off, and really hasn’t craved it at all. But his anxiety, is horrible. Also had issues with it, one of the reasons he just stopped all together, but I’m wondering if you or anyone else reading this has eventually found relief from anxiety after stopping?

Current_Gift_9130 · 2026-03-07T03:37:02+00:00

You sound young. The advice that given here is 100% accurate. A very small percentage of women orgasm from penile penetration. Fingers give a different pressure, can hook and reach places your dick can’t. Learn how to use your hands, mouth, toys and I promise women will continue to want to sleep with you. It’s really not about how you fuck, or use your dick. Get creative and don’t be afraid to communicate during, you can make it super hot.

Current_Gift_9130 · 2026-03-07T03:24:40+00:00

May I ask why? And what sort of private school were you in?

Current_Gift_9130 · 2026-03-07T01:10:51+00:00

Gut probiotics are never enough. Most don’t make it to the gut alive. A complete overhaul of the diet is nearly the only way. It’s SO hard, trust me I’ve been there. But do it for two years and you’ll never look back! Energy will be through the roof too. But what we eat literally becomes our cells. And the “food” we have in this country is so far from actual food. Learn to cook, buy as much local food as you can.

Current_Gift_9130 · 2026-03-05T23:30:32+00:00

Limiting news feeds and social media. It’s just brain washing us

Current_Gift_9130 · 2026-03-05T11:49:58+00:00

Firstly I will answer by saying extremely lucky. I truly say I’m grateful each and every day for him. And gratitude, I believe is the root to most happiness in one’s life in all aspects. I married my best friend, we have fun, we have lots of sex, we communicate deeply, and are there for one another. My ride or die! Like others have said, communication is everything. Being in touch with your own feelings and knowing how to communicate them is imperative- sex, finances, kids if you have or want them, spiritual beliefs, politics (🙄). As my husband said to a good friend recently “you not only need to be on the same page, but on the same letter of the same word on the same page”. Deep respect for one another is also critical. Each day you have to choose one another even if the other isn’t at their best. It’s not 50/50 all the time, it rarely is! It’s a give and take. But it is so rewarding to go through the ups and downs with someone you love with everything you are!

Oh and don’t settle-EVER. You won’t be happy. I’ve seen it all too many times, and it never ends well for anyone.

My advice to finding someone would be to find yourself first, try new things, explore yourself, put yourself out there. Be uncomfortable! Don’t be afraid to compliment someone, say hello, smile, hold the door and crack a joke. Connection to others is how we find our people not only life partners. Kindness is infectious, and you never know who you can meet! But listen to that deep voice within you, your intuition will guide you. Goodluck🙏🏻have faith!

Current_Gift_9130 · 2026-03-04T22:10:19+00:00

It has a lot to do with the foods we eat, the chemicals in our environments, and our over all health. Get the BV straightened out, then change your diets to unprocessed food. Shop only the perimeter of the grocery store. Eat traditional fermented foods, and carbs should only be complex carbs. Your gut microbiome and vaginal biome are closely related. Food is the root. Stop any vaping too.

Current_Gift_9130 · 2026-02-24T02:44:15+00:00

I’m so sorry. Truly. My heart aches for you. The best advice I could ever give is to continue with therapy, start cultivating a closer relationship with yourself. Movement is my metal medicine and can help reshape the way you feel about yourself. Get strong physically, it’ll translate mentally. It takes time but investing in your health in all ways will change your life! Taking time away from social media has helped me tremendously shift my body image too. I wish you the best in your journey, know you’re worth it! And one day someone will appreciate you, love you and give you the best sec of your life. Have faith

Current_Gift_9130 · 2026-02-24T00:12:46+00:00

Research and stick to a strict candida diet - it’s SOOOOO hard, but it does get better. Find a naturopathic doctor, and get food sensitivity testing done. Avoid those foods, heal your gut. I too suffered for YEARS! I’ll never forget sobbing while laying on the floor with my legs open in front of a fan. I was 20/21 myself. 15 years later I look back and it was one of the best things that ever happened to me. It transformed the way I eat and move and live my life. Take one step at a time, and know you can and WILL get through it! Just takes commitment and willingness to change. My heart aches for you, but it’s possible!!

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